Rich, I found an interesting article that addresses your questions, the link is below... I think you are right in that you're going to find mostly resistance to "aggressive" treatment for your mom given her age and other health problems, but this is a thoughtful article weighing the pro's and con's of chemo in the elderly taking all under consideration. Hope this is helpful, but in the end it's going to be up to your mom, and if she's following her doc's lead and they're reluctant to subject her to the rigors of chemo, you'll probably have to just accept it. Any way, I take umbrage at the doctors who you say find this site "misinformed"! Tell them from me that my oncologist who is the very best does not find ME misinformed!
Systemic Therapy for Breast Cancer in the Elderly
http://www.hmpcommunications.com/cg/displayArticle.cfm?
articleID=cgac1216
Love, Lolly