Thanks Jojo. I was reading some of your posts last night and was going to e-mail you if you didn't reply

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Baby's name is Sabrina. She was 5 1/2 lbs when she was born & now she's >16 lbs at 4 months! Thanks for asking. Do you have children?
I'm in a herceptin trial that required a mastectomy prior to surgery, so neoadjuvent chemo was not an option for me. On the stats.....the American Cancer Society publishes 5 year survival rates for stage III at 50%. Now, that was the old staging, not the new staging. However, if you go to Mayo's site, you can go into "your own chances" and put in age, # of lymph nodes, ER/PR status, etc, and it will give you expert opinion on your chances based on your chemo regime. This was also in the 50% chance range. So I figured some people get mets that don't die within 5 years, so the odds of mets are higher than 50%. But I'm also getting herceptin, so that should lower it by some percentage, but I don't know what it is. I mentioned the 50% number to both my onc. and surgeon and they told me the stats were probably pretty accurate.

With 2 small children, I just needed to know what I was dealing with. I try not to think about the stats too much, but it's hard not to.
Of course you & I are going to be in the 50% that make it!!!