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Hi all,
I wanted to reply to Vinnie's and lauren's posts. First off, lauren, I want to say I really admire your forthright and strong voice in your posts. You speak your mind and don't hold back and that's amazing. As a North Jersey boy originally, I find that your powerful New York sound even makes me a little homesick!
That said, I think it's important to separate out our own opinions, from what's medically reasonable. As you said bc is always a systemic disease. There's a surgeon named Blake Cady at Brown U., who in an interview I once saw said something like "No woman ever lost her life for saving her breast." And most researchers and oncologists seem to back that up. So, as Vinnie's wife makes her decision, it's important to remember that what she's weighing is how she feels about the risk of developing a recurrence or second primary as opposed to how much she wants to keep her breast. LOTS of women want to keep both their breasts, within medical reason (I know one of these women very intimately). LOTS of women want to keep one breast if at all possible--for all kinds of reasons, including that it's an important site of their sexuality, it's an important part of their body image, etc. You've seen that amazing picture (in Our Bodies, Ourselves and elsewhere) of the strong woman with the mastectomy scar turned into a tattoo flower?
Anyway, I know a few women who did not have bc but did test for the mutation who, upon finding out that they had it, went on raloxifene and had an oophrectomy. That too is a reasonable choice...
Good luck, Vinnie, as you and your family negotiate this painful decision.
Best,
Jeff
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