please help me urgently- don\'t want to lose hair etc.

Hi,
after 4 months of treatment herceptin+cisplatin,(I have breast cancer which caused liver mets) I did a CAT scan and they found it hasn't worked at all. Now they want to substitute cisplatin with taxol, or taxotere... but I know their side effects, I have already experienced them. Do you know anything about CAELYX? It should be lighter to bear... I am so scared. Let me know.