Losing my med onc - bummed!!!

[AlaskaAngel]

Ow, ow, ow.... I'm glad you got through your most recent challenge, Steph, and am sorry you have had to. As usual, you have a game plan already in the works to try to find the best possible replacement even though it is not always simple. I agree with Sandy; close access is one of the best things you have going for you and I know you will make the most of it. Will your current onc be available to you for a second opinion if at some point you feel you really need one?

A.A.

[juanita]

My onc isn't leaving, but my nurse is. she's reaaly good at hitting veins and has always sat down and talked to us when it's slower in the office.

[Barbara H.]

Steph,
I know how you feel. I have been with my oncologist for 8 years and now he is going to the satellite hospital of Dana Farber. I can still see him, but only on Wednesdays, and that is the day he wants me to receive my treatment. I feel that the relationships that we build with our onclologists are so important considering the seriousness of our disease. I hope that you will find someone you feel comfortable with but it could take some time. You might be fortunate, because I connected to my neurosurgeon immediately.
Good luck,
Barbara H.

[Berta]

Steph: i know how hard adjusting to a new onc can be. Mine left during my chemo and I have had rent-a-docs ever since. I've had so many I don't remember them all. I live in rural Southern Indiana. However, i have found that its the nurses that really stay on top of stuff and provide for the continuity of care, at least what there is and the docs are all obligated to follow protocols as set by the onc group in Indianapolis. I have had excellent treatment, I think and began herceptin in July of 05 so they have stayed up to date but it is hard to change docs when you feel so dependent upon them to help you fight this thing. Berta

[mamacze]

Oh Stephanie,
You shine through your most recent set backs and now this. You must feel so frustrated that the one person you literally trust your life with is moving away.
You have a good head on your shoulders and you network well so I have no doubt that you already have some alternatives in mind. If push comes to shove, however, you may consider giving Nora Disis a call and get some thoughts from her. Good luck angel girl.
Love Kim from CT

[chrisy]

Oh Steph - that is a bummer! You have been through SO much, and have been lucky enough to work with an entire team of wonderful doctors who know you, and who you trust - (literally) with your life. I lost my "wonderful" oncologist suddenly and unexpectedly - he died of a heart attack at age 42. I felt like an orphan. Tap into some recommendations from the rest of your "team" - and I like you taking the opportunity to discuss this with your onc who is leaving. This relationship is so much more than a simple doctor/patient one! Best of luck to you in finding another wonderful doctor - as I know you will!
Chris

[RobinP]

I am loosing my oncologist too soon and Iam on the hunt for a good new one in upstate NY.