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[Mary Jo]

Joy.......Happy Birthday. It sounds like the birthday festivities have been on going and fabulous.

....AND that man of yours..........well, he sounds absolutely like KEEPER MATERIAL.

I'm so happy for you and pray the blessings just continue to rain down on you and your entire family.

Mary Jo

[Becky]

Dear Joy

Your picture alone always makes me smile. I could go on and on but its late and I wanted to respond right NOW to one item in your post (I'll post again later to reverberate my go get em cheer).

Just in case you have to prove how much time you have the girls versus the ex - start writing it down (including the phone calls). Do it for a month. It'll be a pain in your a__ but you will have some ammo if you have to have it. Even put down what he's doing if you know (like a Saturday the kids are with you but you know he's going to Nascar or on a date with Jane Doe).

You might really need the info and then you can prove that you have them 93% of the time and he has them 7% (and its really 4% because they call you X amount of hours while they're with him). If you have to go before a judge its better to say I know than I think.

Good night sweetie