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Old 05-10-2008, 12:38 AM   #1
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Unhappy Mom passes away

All,

This will probably be my last post here. I wish to thank all of you for the excellent information and support I received here.

After surviving 7 years, Mom finally passed away on 4th May. We had her at home and she went peacefully due to respiratory failure.

As per Hindu tradition we cremated her and immersed her ashes in the waters of the river Ganges.

I wish you all the very best and once again thank you.

Best,
Sachin Mehra on behalf of my mother Suman Mehra

Diagnosed in 2001, er-, pr-, her2 3+
Treated with Taxol, Herceptin, Tykerb, Xeloda, Gemzar, Zometa, herbal and homeopathic medication
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Old 05-10-2008, 02:50 AM   #2
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Unhappy

My deepest condolences to you and your family. It hurts us all to lose another to this disease and it's obvious your Mother fought a long battle to beat this.
I hope in time you can take comfort from knowing she's at peace and not hurting anymore. I'm so sorry.
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Old 05-10-2008, 04:32 AM   #3
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I'm so sorry for your loss. May your mother now rest in peace.

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Dx. 6/24/05 age 45 Right Breast IDC
ER/PR. Neg., - Her2+++
RB Mast. - 7/28/05 - 4 cm. tumor
Margins clear - 1 microscopic cell 1 sent. node
No Vasucular Invasion
4 DD A/C - 4 DD Taxol & Herceptin
1 full year of Herceptin received every 3 weeks
28 rads
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Old 05-10-2008, 04:43 AM   #4
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So sorry to hear about your mother. My deepest sympathy.
hugs and love
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Old 05-10-2008, 05:10 AM   #5
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Dear Sachin,
I am sorry to hear of your Mother's passing.

I am sure your Mother continues her journey but now
does so in peace.


Jean



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Old 05-10-2008, 05:13 AM   #6
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Dear Sachin,
I'm so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. You have been such a wonderful champion for her through it all. Thank you for being so kind to let us know. God bless you and your family.
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Ki67 20% borderline
Jan - March '06 Taxotere/Adriamycin X 3 to try to shrink tumor - it grew
April '06 Rt Modified Radical Mas, 7 of 9 nodes positive
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Sept - Dec. '06 Navelbine/Herceptin x 8 (dose dense)
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Old 05-10-2008, 06:02 AM   #7
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So sorry

I'm so Sorry Sachin about your mother. It has come on a very rough week for all of us as you know. I see thru your posts that you have worked diligently in searching for answers for her and I know that she must have been very thankful to have you.

Please accept my condolences for your sad loss.

Lisa
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Old 05-10-2008, 07:01 AM   #8
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Dear Sachin,

I am so very sorry to hear this news. The "service" sounds beautiful, and I hope that you and your family may find peace and comfort.

Take care,
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Diagnosed 3/29/2007 @ age 34
Stage 1, Node Neg. (SNB), Grade 2, 1.4 cm. IDC
ER/PR 90%+ HER2 +
6 TCH started 5/25/2007, ended after #5 due to steroid "reactions" and neuropathy in feet and hands
BUT--#6 CH w/o Taxotere
Begin Herceptin alone 9/28/2007
30 rads completed 12/19/2007
Finish Herceptin 5/9/2008
Stopped Tamoxifen early--HATED it.
Married 17 years
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Old 05-10-2008, 07:05 AM   #9
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I am very sorry about the loss of your mother. Know my thoughts are with you and your family.
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Found lump via BSE
Diagnosed 8/04 at age 45
1.9cm tumor, ER+PR-, Her2 3+(rt side)
2 micromets to sentinel node
Stage 2A
left 3mm DCIS - low grade ER+PR+Her2 neg
lumpectomies 9/7/04
4DD AC followed by 4 DD taxol
Used Leukine instead of Neulasta
35 rads on right side only
4/05 started Tamoxifen
Started Herceptin 4 months after last Taxol due to
trial results and 2005 ASCO meeting & recommendations
Oophorectomy 8/05
Started Arimidex 9/05
Finished Herceptin (16 months) 9/06
Arimidex Only
Prolia every 6 months for osteopenia

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Old 05-10-2008, 08:32 AM   #10
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EngeneIC

I just re-read your March posting about EngeneIC. That is so neat! I hope it will be available sometime soon. We sure will be missing you. Thank you for allowing us to be part of your Mom's journey. Best wishes to you and yours.
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Old 05-10-2008, 09:50 AM   #11
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I am so sorry to hear of your loss - please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old 05-10-2008, 10:21 AM   #12
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Dear Sachin,

Please accept my prayers for the loss of your dear mother. I am sorry.

Hugs and Prayers,
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Old 05-10-2008, 11:35 AM   #13
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Sorry for the loss of your mother. My hearltfelt condolences to your family. She must be proud to have a son like you.

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Had dose dense neoadjuvant AC,Taxol then mastectomy,radiation+xeloda+Herceptin.
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Old 05-10-2008, 12:32 PM   #14
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Please accept my sympathy about your mother. She surely had to be very proud of you and thankful for all you did. We will miss your posts.
Bless you
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Old 05-10-2008, 06:19 PM   #15
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Old 05-11-2008, 05:26 AM   #16
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Sachin
I send my deepest sympathy in the loss of your Mother....know that she is now at peace with no more pain....it is hard to lose this important woman, thank you for letting us know. May you also be at peace now.
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Core Biopsy 2/22/02
L. Mastectomy 2/25/2002
Stage 1, 0.7cm IDC, Node Neg from 19 nodes Her2+++ ER PR Neg
6/2003 Reconstruction W/ Tissue Expander, Silicone Implant
9/2003 Stage IV with Mets to Supraclavicular nodes
9/2003 Began Herceptin every 3 weeks
3/2006 Xeloda 2500mg/Herceptin for recurrence to neck nodes
3/2007 Added back the Xeloda with Herceptin for continued mets to nodes
5/2007 Taken Off Xeloda, no longer working
6/14/07 Taxol/Herceptin/Avastin
3/26 - 5/28/08 Taxol Holiday Whopeeeeeeeee
5/29 2008 Back on Taxol w Herceptin q 2 weeks
4/2009 Progression on Taxol & Paralyzed L Vocal Cord from Nodes Pressing on Nerve
5/2009 Begin Rx with Navelbine/Herceptin
11/09 Progression on Navelbine
Fought for and started Tykerb/Herceptin...nodes are melting!!!!!
2/2010 Back to Avastin/Herceptin
5/2010 Switched to Metronomic Chemo with Herceptin...Cytoxan and Methotrexate
Pericardial Window Surgery to Drain Pericardial Effusion
7/2010 Back to walking a mile a day...YEAH!!!!
9/2010 Nodes are back with a vengence in neck
Qualified for TDM-1 EAP
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Mixed response, shrinking internal nodes, progression skin mets after 3 treatments
12/6/10 Started Halaven (Eribulen) /Herceptin excellent results in 2 treatments
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2/8/2012 Gemzar stopped, Continue Herceptin
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Old 05-11-2008, 05:55 PM   #17
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I am so sorry for the loss of your dear mother, may you continue to feel her love and know she is at peace now.
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Diag 10/2006-high grade invasive ductal carcinoma- mastectomy L breast
2.5 cm tumor ER/PR pos-Her2+++
4 rounds A/C, 4 rounds Taxol
Herceptin every 3 weeks until Jan. 2008
6/18/07 prophylatic mastectomy R breast
8/2007 started aromasin/stopped arimidex (side effects)
12/07 stopped aromasin due to side effects (now what?)
Finished herceptin 1/8/08
started tamoxifen for 2 years then will switch to femera
allergic to tamoxifen started femera 4/2008
June 20, 2008 portacath removed
Learnig to live life to the fullest!
Stopped Femera due to side effects
July 28, 2008 start trial for breast cancer vaccine
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