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Dear Sherry,
It always amazes me when people are rewarded just because they are blood, not because they are deserving.
It is a shame your brother doesn't understand that he has the wonderful opportunity to leave a beautiful legacy. He could donate some of the money to a worthy organizaton/or/charity. It is obvious that he has no ill feelings against you or your husband, since he told you about his will. Explain to him that an inheritance is a gift of love....
It is so important that he understand how hurt you are. It will not be an easy conversation for you, be prepared so you can handle the topic with
calm.
I have a dear friend who is an angel, and yet I have seen injustice to her that is not fair or even reasonable. She often says, "No Good Deeds Go Unpunished." Hopefully this will not be the case for you.
Kind Regards,
jean
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Stage 1, Grade 1, 3/30/05
Lumpectomy 4/15/05 - 6MM IDC
Node Neg. (Sentinel node)
ER+ 90% / PR-, Her2+++ by FISH
Ki-67 40%
Arimidex 5/05
Radiation 32 trt, 5/30/05
Oncotype DX test 4/17/06, 31% high risk
TOPO 11 neg. 4/06
Stopped Arimidex 5/06
TCH 5/06, 6 treatments
Herceptin 5/06 - for 1 yr.
9/06 Completed chemo
Started Femara Sept. 2006
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