Life seems to be about losing

[mke]

ouch!!

I bet you miss those things too. Heavens knows I miss stuff from my pre-BC life.

Your husband isn't being super supportive, but he isn't the only one. This time around my husband has been great, the first round he was an a***ole. It was his idiotic way of coping.

What can you do? Well try to give him a break. Is there anyone else that you can call on for a drive to treatment? There are volunteer drivers to treatment here. Some of your friends would probably like to do something but have never been asked. At times you just need to ask, it's hard but people want to help and feel awkward about being intrusive. I'm no do-gooder but I would have been happy to be asked to take my neighbor off to her treatment. The broader your support group is the better for you and for your supports.