Hugs to you. There is Hope in the treatment of brain mets.
I was diagnosed with brain mets last year. I was successfully treated with Stereotactic Radiosurgery. My Brain MRI results show I have NO EVIDENCE OF DISEASE in my Brain.
The tumors are gone.
There are many options available in the treatment of brain mets. The Key is to Find a Neurosurgeon that treats brain mets on a regular basis. I would suggest you go to the best major cancer center near you, that being Dana Farber Cancer Institute in Boston or Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center in New York.
Here are the weblinks
Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center
http://www.mskcc.org
Dana Farber Cancer Institute
http://www.dana-farber.org
Have Faith and Hope,