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12-17-2006, 08:54 AM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Ohio
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Mel, I am so sad and sorry to hear this latest news about our dear Lisa...Candles are lit for both of you. I hope she can feel all the love being sent her way right now.
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Audrey
diagnosed July 2001, at age 36
large tumor, 11+ nodes
Stage IIIb, er/pr-, Her2+
treated with A/C, weekly Taxol
radiation, + year of Herceptin
on clinical trial. double mastectomy
followed by reconstruction
NED!!
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12-17-2006, 09:10 AM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Ft. Collins, Colorado
Posts: 546
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don't know what to say...
that hasn't already been said. My heart is heavy and my stomach aches for you both. My prayers are strong, but my sorrow for you and for Lisa is so great. Thank you for thinking of us and, yes, please remind Lisa of how very loved she is.
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with love and gratitude,
joy
dx stage I 2/2000*er/pr+; her- per IHC*lumpectomy*4 rounds A/C*30 rads*tamoxifen*dx stage 4 5/2002*huge mets to liver*tiny mets to lungs*stopped tamoxifen*5/02 taxotere/xeloda*her 2 checked with FiSH-her2+++herceptin *2/03 stopped chemo femara w/herceptin*zolodex*04 switched to aromasin w/herceptin*05 high estrogen tx*11/05taxol/carbo*7/06 stopped chemo; megace/herceptin*9/06navelbine/herceptin*5/07tykerb/xeloda great response*4/08 progression in liver; ooph/ faslodex /herceptin
6/08 began Herceptin DM-1
9/08 progression
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12-17-2006, 09:36 AM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: virginia
Posts: 99
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Together
Thank goodness that Brave and Strong and Warrior Lisa has you.....Brave and Strong and Warrior Mel by her side. We share your sorrow and send you both love and strength. For you and all your family and friends.....peace, love and {{{{{{ HUGS }}}}}}. Bonnie
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12-17-2006, 10:26 AM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: TAMPA, FL
Posts: 568
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My candles are lit and my prayers are strong....
Mel, I do not even know what to say to you at this time but that I think so much of Lisa, even only knowing her through this web site.
Her smile remains in my memories always.
I wish her peace....
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Irene from Tampa
1996 - INFILT DUCTAL CAR.W/ LYMPH NODE INVOLVEMENT. ADRIA/CYTOXIN/5FU
1999 - RECURR. TO AUXILA AND 2 TUMORS IN LIVER
TREAT: STEM CELL REPLACEMENT/HERCEPTIN.
2002 - RECUR TO LIVER
TREAT: NAVELBINE, THEN GEMZAR, THEN XELODA.
2004 - TUMORS STILL IN LIVER
TREAT: RFA TO LIVER
STABLE UNTIL
2004 - TUMOR PROGRESSION IN LIVER.
TREAT: RESECT HALF OF LIVER.
2005 - RECURR TO LYMPH NODE OUTSIDE OF LIVER.
TREAT: TAXOL/CARPO/HERCEPTIN. FAILED ON
THIS TRIO. STARTED ON ABRAXANE.
2006 - PROGRESS WITH 2ND TUMOR GROWTH.
TREAT: AUG. BEGAN ON TYKERB/XELODA
TRIAL. CONSIDERED STABLE TO DATE.
2007 - TAKEN OFF OF TYKERB/XELODA TRIAL DUE TO
PROGRESS STARTING TYKERB/AVASTIN.
NOV 2007 - SCANS SHOW PROGRESS TUMOR GROWTH
IN ABDOM. AND TWO NEW TUMORS IN NECK AREA.
BEGAN HERCEPTIN/AVASTIN/TAXOTERE
Feb 08 - Ixempra/Xeloda
June 08 - Her/DM1 trial
"I WANT TO BE AN OUTRAGEOUS OLD WOMAN WHO NEVER GETS CALLED AN OLD LADY. I WANT TO GET SHARP EDGED & EARTH COLORED, TILL I FADE AWAY FROM PURE JOY."
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12-17-2006, 10:28 AM
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: The Hudson Valley, New York
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Mel,
We'll light the candle, with the hope that peace of mind, and of heart, finds a place with you and your family, and especially with Lisa. There are no words, and everything falls short. Our thoughts are with you, and if there is ever a way for love to be sent, it is being done now by many for you, for Lisa.
Thank you for being here, it makes all the difference.
---Kevin and Sue---
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12-17-2006, 11:08 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Posts: 232
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Love and healing prayers being sent to both of you.
Karen
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12-17-2006, 11:28 AM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Jul 2006
Posts: 146
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Light a candle
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
ginkott1@aol.com
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12-17-2006, 11:41 AM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Mountains of Virginia
Posts: 2,267
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Mel and Lisa,
May you be filled with the light of love....
And may God hold you in the palm of his hand.....
Lisa is a special inspiration to me.
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers,
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buy condo Pattaya
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12-17-2006, 01:16 PM
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Member
Join Date: Sep 2005
Posts: 22
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my prayers to you both for strength and courage to face what comes, and for freedom from pain. My heart aches for you.
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12-17-2006, 01:56 PM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Bradenton,FL
Posts: 977
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Mel, please add my prayers to the chorus of "love and light" being sent across the miles.
I am so terribly saddened...
Marcia
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12-17-2006, 02:33 PM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Dec 2005
Posts: 274
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Thoughts and prayers
Dear Mel,
I am sending along thoughts and prayers at this time. May God give you the strength you need to bear this.
Sincerely,
Liz J.
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12-17-2006, 03:29 PM
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#32
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Senior Member
Join Date: May 2006
Location: northshore suburb of chicago
Posts: 1,093
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It is with a very heavy heart that I light this candle for Lisa and as I do I pray for her peaceful comfort at this time. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. Let her know the love and support we all feel for her. I am so sorry.
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~Rina~
Dx:3/06 had a lumpectomy April 19, 2006
Her2+ er/pr- Stage I Grade 3 tumor size 1.4 cm, node negative
AC 4 dense doses
34 radiation treatments including booster doses
receiving herceptin every 3 weeks since late August 2006 for 12 months
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12-17-2006, 03:33 PM
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#33
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Senior Member
Join Date: Oct 2005
Posts: 823
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Sending Prayers and Love
Mel my hearts hurts so badly for you during this difficult time for both you and Lisa. Please know that you both have my prayers being sent to you.
(((((((((((((((((( HUG'S))))))))))))))
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Vicki
Texas
Biopsy Dx'd 3-23-05 Age 48
MRM 4-5-05 w/ 2 tumor's 5cm, and 6 cm (right side)
IDC (poorly differentiated infiltrating ductual carcinoma)
5+/16 nodes
Stage III A
Grade 3
ER/PR-, Her2/neu ++
Ki67 78%
Begin Chemo 5-2-05 4XAC Dose Dense , 4X Abraxane Dose Dense (ended August 05)
28 Rad's ended October 13 2005
Started Herceptin Weekly August 2005 for one year
Had a Simple mastectomy left side after Mamo showed incresed micro-calcifications. Jan. 17 2006.
Brain MRI Feb.2006--All Clear
August 28, 2006 Last Weekly Herceptin.
October 2006--Colonoscopy, 6 Polyp's removed--all B9
PET Scan July 2007
Abdominal MRI Oct. 2007---2 Right Kidney Cysts
Core Biopsy-- Lump on Scar Line 1-10-08---B9
Brain MRI 6-2008--All Clear
PET/CT Scan 6-2008
Sept. 8 2008, 4CM area removed from mastectomy scar line. Proved to be B9.
PET/CT Scan-- July 2009 --All clear
August 17,2009 ---Had Port Removed
6 Years NED -- April 5,2011
DX'd with Melanoma left arm 10-10-2011
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12-17-2006, 04:15 PM
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#34
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Senior Member
Join Date: Sep 2005
Posts: 161
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Sending good and restful thoughts Lisa's way tonight.
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Diag. Oct. 2004 age 54 left breast
Stage 1 grade 3; 6mm IDC; unknown amount of DCIS
with comedo necrosis; node neg.
Nottingham Grade 7/9
ER 91% PR 62%; Her2 3.6 by ICH; KI-67 35%
Nov 2004 Lumpectomy; SNB failed so had
full axillary clearance;
Dec 2004 2nd lumpy for clean DCIS margins.
Jan/Feb 2005 4 A/C dose dense;
33 rads finished 6/2005;
Began 5 years Arimidex in 6/2005
No Herceptin
9/2007 Quit Arimidex due to severe side effects.
NED
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12-17-2006, 04:44 PM
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#35
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Senior Member
Join Date: Mar 2006
Posts: 1,843
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Mines been lit.
So hard to find any words
RB
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12-17-2006, 05:42 PM
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#36
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Senior Member
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: PA
Posts: 188
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Mel,
I have lit a candle in Pittsburgh for you & Lisa.....I cannot find the right words to type, but know that my heart aches for you both.
Love to you
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Susan V - Pittsburgh PA
DX Age 37 on August 3, 2006
Stage 1 Grade 3
ER/PR + (Highly Positive)
Her 2 +++
1.3 & 1.2 tumors right breast
node negative
lumpectomy 8-15-06
A/C Began 9-5-06 Finished A/C 11/6/06
Port Placement 9-15-06
Negative Test for BRAC1 & BRAC2 10-25-06
Began Tamoxofin November 21, 2006
First Herceptin November 27, 2006 Continues every 3 Weeks
First Radiation Treatment December 11, 2006
35 Rads Completed
Final Herceptin Treatment November 12, 2007
Port Removal November 19, 2007
Living Life to the Fullest !!
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12-17-2006, 06:58 PM
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#37
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Senior Member
Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: Watkinsville, Georgia
Posts: 356
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Mel ~ words are not adequate at a time like this but she will always hold a special place in so many hearts & minds. She will always be remembered as a beautiful and courageous soul that gave herself to so many others. I enjoyed coming back to this website for 3 years and reading her thoughtful, funny and generous insights into the life we live in....this special bond that holds us together & makes none of us strangers.
Peace, Ruth
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Diagnosed 6/03 nursing daughter
Dose dense A/C 4x
Modified rad mast 8/03
IDC; 3 cm; 10+/16 nodes; ER/PR-; Her2+++
Weekly taxol w/Herceptin (off label) 12x's
40 weeks Herceptin
Radiation 33x
Reconstruction w/ implants 05 & 07
NED
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12-17-2006, 10:01 PM
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#38
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Senior Member
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Houston, Texas
Posts: 624
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I agree that it is so hard to know what to say. My thoughts and prayers are with you Lisa and the rest of your family. I am deeply saddened by Lisa's condition. I am praying for the best.
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12-18-2006, 12:08 AM
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#39
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Senior Member
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: .
Posts: 211
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Dear Mel
I am so sad from this news. As you can see Lisa is so loved on this board.I have no words .Lisa is so lucky to have your support.
love
linda
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12-18-2006, 02:05 AM
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#40
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Senior Member
Join Date: May 2006
Posts: 26
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Candles have been lit. While my heart grieves for both of you, it is at least a small measure of peace that Lisa is at last sleeping and more comfortable. You have been a wonderful partner in all of this and I know how very hard you have worked, Mel. God bless you for the love and loyalty showed this first class lady. I will truly miss her warmth and wisdom on the board.
Rose
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