I agree with Janelle. I haven't looked at this site for ages, but started looking again recently. It's my two year anniversary, so suppose you are all on my mind. And I found this site such a wonderful help when I first found it 9 months ago. I had wished I had found it two years ago!! Today there seems to be much gloomy and caution. But hey, we've all been there and and that's what this board is for, so we can help each other through the rough spots.
I remember posting something that I thought was quite inoccuous on one occasion and someone took offence at it, thinking it inflammatory, so I guess I just became a lurker for a while and gradually gave up visiting at all. But I don't think anyone here means to hurt or offend, or to tell anyone what to do. It's just a sharing of ideas and mutual support. Like someone else said elsewhere, you are the only one's I know with HER2 disease. I haven't met anyone in my city who even knows what it is (except for the doctors).
Yes we all get emotional, angry, sad and anxious and I find I gain strength from hearing how you all cope with things far worse than I have to cope with. It gives me courage that I too will cope if things get worse for me.
So I figure it's best not to take anything personally. I just like to listen to other opinions so I can weigh up what seems best for me and my little family. And if I can make a useful suggestion to someone else along the way, then that's good too.
Happy times for all ahead.
Vicki
PS I'm still NED and celebrating 2 years.
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