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Old 02-03-2008, 10:35 AM   #21
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Donna, I am so sorry about this terrible news. Pat is a star in the sky now. Our only consolation is to think that she is not suffering anymore. You should keep posting. We need you and we will try to bring you comfort as much as we can. Michka
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12.2010 Mets to liver,Herceptin+Tykerb
03.2011 Liver resection ER+70% PR-
04.2011 Herceptin+Navelbine+750mg Tykerb
06.2011 Liver ned, Met to sternum. Added Zometa 09.2011 Cyberknife for sternum
11.2011 Pet clear. Stop Navelbine, continuing on Hercpetin+Tykerb+Aromasin
02.2012 Mets to lungs, nodes, liver
04.2012 TDM1, Ned in 07.2012
04.2015 Stop TDM1/Kadcyla, still Ned, liver problems
04.2016 Liver mets. Back on Kadcyla
08.2016 Kadcyla stopped working. mets to liver lungs bones
09.2016 Biopsy to liver. no more HER2, still ER+
09.2016 CMF Afinitor/Aromasin/ Xgeva.Met to eye muscle Cyberknife
01.2017 Gemzar/Carboplatin/ Ibrance/Faslodex then Taxotere
02.2017 30 micro mets to brain breathing getting worse and worse
04.2017 Liquid biopsy/CTC indicates HER2 again. Start Herceptin with Halaven
06.2017 all tumors shrunk 60% . more micro mets to brain (1mm mets) no symptoms
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Old 02-03-2008, 10:46 AM   #22
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Dear Donna,

I'm so very sorry to hear of Pat's passing. Hang on tight to those precious memories and know that she is at peace now. Sending love and prayers, Kim.
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Diag. Feb 1997 4.5cm IDC <10%ER+, PR-. 5 out of 36 nodes +. Mastectomy followed by 3 rounds Adriamycin/Cytoxin.


5/1997 Hi Dose Chemo w/ Stem cell rescue. Spent 4 weeks in isolation ward. Then 6 weeks radiation.

9/2001 widespread mets to liver. 8 mos Taxotere/Herceptin brought me almost to NED. Stop Taxotere & add Femara .

11/2002 liver resection to remove spot that turned out to be necrosis. Officially NED!

7/2003 Tumor markers rising add Xeloda Disastrous reaction, 8 days hospital, but tumor markers came back to normal!

June -Dec 2004 UW Vaccine Trial.

7/2005 MRI single 11mm brain met
8/2005 Gamma Knife.

Brain MRI @3 months NED!

2006-2011 brain/body still NED

8/04/11 Taking Herceptin break, will monitor with tumor markers.

6/20/12 Tumor markers begin to rise. CA15-3 is 31.3 and Her2 Serum is at 17.1 Decide to repeat in one month.

7/23/12 CA15-3 now 49.3
Her2 Serum 26.8

8/6/12 Back on Herceptin
CA15-3 now 76
Her2 Serum now 49

11/7/12 Add weekly Taxotere for 4 cycles

2/2013 Stopped Taxotere added Perjeta. MRI shows approx. 50% reduction liver mets. CA15-3 still elevated @ 55. Will continue on just Herceptin & Perjeta.

November 2014 Continuing on Herceptin, Perjeta, and
Femara indefinitely. Guess I'm NED again, but watching those tumor markers carefully!

Dec. 2015 PET scan reveals mass in perirectal area of abdomen.biopsy confirms. Still Her2+, but no longer ER+. Bye bye Femara

Jan 2016 Begin Kadcyla

March 2016 PET scan shows tumor now barely visible, still NED everywhere else.
2016/2017 continue Kadcyla

November 2017 brain MRI reveals small focus of T2 hyperintensity with possible 4mm enhancing nodule. Short term follow up MRI suggested. Stay tuned...
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Old 02-03-2008, 11:13 AM   #23
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So very sorry to hear the news. Take care and know that we are
thinking of you at this time.
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07, Arimedex for 5 years. Mugas and Echo and chest xRay. Bone scan of whole Body, and Back of Brain and spine MRI.
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Old 02-03-2008, 11:19 AM   #24
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Donna,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I understand your pain and will keep you in my prayers.

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Lumpectomy 4/15/05 - 6MM IDC
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Arimidex 5/05
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Herceptin 5/06 - for 1 yr.
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Old 02-03-2008, 12:01 PM   #25
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Unhappy Sad news

Donna,
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that many are thinking of you, and at some point your wonderful memories will help.
Thinking of you,
Barbara H.
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Old 02-03-2008, 12:02 PM   #26
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I am so sorry to hear of Pat's passing. Although you loss must be terribly painful, please take comfort in the fact that you were there for her. Pat is now an angel watching over all of us. Please stay with us here and accept our support and caring.
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DX 2/15/05 Stage IIb (at surgery)restaged IIIa
Left mast .9cm tumor 5 of 14 nodes
Triple Positive
4 DD A/C
12 Taxol/Herceptin
33Rads
Strange infect mast site one year aft surg, hosp 1 wk
Herceptin for total of 18 months
Lupron Monthly 4 yrs
Neurontin for aches, pains and hot flashes(It works!)
Ovaries removed 11/09 stop Lupron and Neurontin
Arimidex 6 yrs (tried Femara, no SE improvement)
Tried Exemestane-hips got so bad could hardly walk
Back to Arimidex for year seven
Zometa 2X Annual for 7years, Lasix
Stop Arimidex 5/13
Stop Zometa 7/13-Bi-lateral Stress Fractures in Femurs from Zometa
5/14 Start Tamoxifen
3/15 Stem cell transplant to stimulate femur bone growth/healing
5/15 Complete fracture of right femur/Titanium rods both femurs
9/16 Start Evista stopTamoxifen
3/17 Stop Evista--unwelcome side effects!
NED and no meds.......
14YEARS NED!
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Old 02-03-2008, 12:24 PM   #27
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"Be strong...and with courage" - we've all done that, but each stage is different. Please know that we are all here for you.
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Old 02-03-2008, 12:26 PM   #28
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Please know that I am praying for you as you walk through this most difficult loss. I Know Pat was surely blessed having you by her side.
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AC x 4, Taxol x 4, Added Herceptin
Radiation until 09/07
Herceptin every 3 weeks until 06/08
01/10/08 local recurrence -IBC
01/28/08 CT & Brain MRI - clear
02/08 - Navelbine & Herceptin
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Old 02-03-2008, 12:53 PM   #29
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My thoughts and prayers go out to you both.. I know the pain and emptyness..I lost my best friend pn Memorial Day 2007...Still think about her and miss her each day...Take care.....Judith
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Old 02-03-2008, 01:22 PM   #30
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Donna, I can't even imagine your pain at losing Pat. She was the center of all you have done and thought lately. She's in a safe place now with no pain or fear. But you are here and must walk through each day on your own. We'll be here for you and are honored to have such a loving member to share with. We need you and hope we can meet your needs. Much love and peace to one who cares so very much. Wishing you some kind thoughts. ma
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Diag. 12/05 at age 60
Stage II, Grade 3, 4.5 cm primary tumor
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Jan - March '06 Taxotere/Adriamycin X 3 to try to shrink tumor - it grew
April '06 Rt Modified Radical Mas, 7 of 9 nodes positive
April - Aug. '06 Herceptin/Taxol/Carboplatin X 8 (dose dense)
Sept - Dec. '06 Navelbine/Herceptin x 8 (dose dense)
Radiation & Herceptin Jan. 22 - March 1, 2007
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Old 02-03-2008, 01:45 PM   #31
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Dear Donna,

Please know that you are in my prayers in this time of grief. It saddens me to read that we have lost another special sister in this fight.

Hugs and Prayers,
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Old 02-03-2008, 03:44 PM   #32
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Dear Sweet Donna, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. You and Pat were in my thoughts and prayers and you will continue to be so. As your sisters have stated, she's no longer hurting or afraid, but now your soulmate is watching over you. Please keep in touch. Love and prayers, Bill
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Old 02-03-2008, 03:58 PM   #33
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I am also sorry to hear of your loss... prayers being sent up ....
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Old 02-03-2008, 04:50 PM   #34
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Donna,
Please know you are wrapped in love and prayers.
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June 2002 extensive hi grade DCIS (pre-cancer-stage 0, clean sentinal node) Mastectomy/implant - no chemo, rads. "cured?"
9/2004 Diag: Stage IV extensive liver mets (!) ER/PR- Her2+++
10/04-3/05 Weekly Taxol/Carboplatin/Herceptin , complete response!
04/05 - 4/07 Herception every 3 wks, Continue NED
04/07 - recurrence to liver - 2 spots, starting tykerb/avastin trial
06/07 8/07 10/07 Scans show stable, continue on Tykerb/Avastin
01/08 Progression in liver
02/08 Begin (TDM1) trial
08/08 NED! It's Working! Continue on TDM1
02/09 Continue NED
02/10 Continue NED. 5/10 9/10 Scans NED 10/10 Scans NED
12/10 Scans not clear....4/11 Scans suggest progression 6/11 progression confirmed in liver
07/11 - 11/11 Herceptin/Xeloda -not working:(
12/11 Begin MM302 Phase I trial - bust:(
03/12 3rd times the charm? AKT trial

5/12 Scan shows reduction! 7/12 More reduction!!!!
8/12 Whoops...progression...trying for Perjeta/Herceptin (plus some more nasty chemo!)
9/12 Start Perjeta/Herceptin, chemo on hold due to infection/wound in leg, added on cycle 2 &3
11/12 Poops! progression in liver, Stop Perjeta/Taxo/Herc
11/12 Navelbine/Herce[ptin - try for a 3 cycles, no go.
2/13 Gemzar/Carbo/Herceptin - no go.
3/13 TACE procedure
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Old 02-03-2008, 07:09 PM   #35
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Donna...

my prayers WILL continue for you AND for Pat. May you find strength and peace. Take care and God bless.

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2/7/05, Partial Mastectomy
5/18/05 Finished 6 rounds of dose dense TEC (Taxotere, Epirubicin and Cytoxan)
8/1/05 Finished 33 rads
8/18/05 Started Herceptin, every 3 weeks for a year (last one 8/10/06)

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Old 02-03-2008, 08:16 PM   #36
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Donna,
I am so saddened to hear of the loss of your Donna. Many sincere loving thoughts being said for you both.

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Old 02-03-2008, 08:39 PM   #37
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I am saddened to hear of your loss. You will be in my prayers, please stay in touch with all of us..sherryg
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Old 02-04-2008, 04:25 AM   #38
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Dear Donna ~ it is so painful to lose someone you love so much ~ your soulmate. You are both blessed to share that love together.
You are both in my prayers and I hope you can draw some comfort knowing you are surrounded by love and care. Take care of yourself Sister ~ you have done a mighty job taking care of one of our own.
Blessings to you Donna.
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12/07 Rx to 'spots' on spine/R/hip/femur 3wkly H
2008 H+T mets to rib/sternum? Aredia CT clear! Cont. H + Aredia 07/08 1 wk Palliative Care - mets to lungs + ?1 to brain
09/08 Stop H complete Epirubicin 1wk PC new brain mets
10/08 2wks WBR 1wk PC 22/10/08 Tykerb/Xeloda 12/08 6 CEREBRAL METS COMPLETELY GONE! Rib mets down to <1cm.
01/09 Tumour markers normal! Rx to L/arm
03/09 LUNGS CLEAR (ALL NODULES GONE!), brain clear, liver clear. Bones stable! ~ THANK YOU GOD
07/09 Repeat CT Scan ~ ALL organs clear apart from bones which remain stable. I walk in gratitude.
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Old 02-04-2008, 06:08 AM   #39
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Donna,

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you. In my book, as I'm sure most others, you are forever part of this family.

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Old 02-04-2008, 07:11 AM   #40
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Donna,
So sorry to hear about your loss.
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