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Old 11-24-2013, 10:15 AM   #1
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Memorial Service for Denise This Friday

Hi All

I am wondering if anyone plans to attend Denise's memorial service this Friday? I live only an hour or so north of Lansdale so I plan on being there. I am hoping someone from here is going too so that I will have a hand to hold.

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April 25, 2012: ER+(5%), PR-, HER2+++
May 10, 2012: BRCA 1,2 Negative
May 23, 2012: MUGA Scan EF 70%
May 31, 2012: B/L Mastectomy. 2/2 nodes removed and CLEAR!! Power Port placed. 2 Drains. 2 Expanders placed
June 5, 2012: Drains OUT! Ahhhh..
June 12, 2012: Final Pathology Report, .8x.3cm tumor. Micromets to 1 node .35mm under cytokeratin staining. Stage 2A. Onc says "you are lucky to have found this early"
July 10, 2012: Started 6 rounds of TCH with weekly H
Sept 5, 2012: MUGA 65%
Sept 20, 2012: CAT scan of brain clear!
Oct 23, 2012: LAST TC! AMEN! Continue Herceptin every three weeks until July 2013.
Nov 19, 2012: Port out!
Dec 5, 2012: Started radiation
Dec. 10, 2012: MUGA 65%
Dec. 13, 2012: Turned 40. BEST BIRTHDAY EVER!
Jan 23, 2013: Last radiation. Told I am NED. Continue Herceptin every three weeks till July 2013.
Jan 29, 2013: Begin 5 years of Tamoxifen.
Feb 28, 2013: CT Scan with Contrast of lungs. 5mm and 4mm nodules of unknown origin. Rescan in 3 months.
Mar 6, 2013: EF 60%
May 8, 2013: Exanders out, implants implanted...abd. lipo and fat moved up. Girls are looking good!
June 3, 2013: CT Scan with Contrast of lungs. Previous nodules gone. New nodules (2mm and 3mm) found. Rescan in 3 months. So sorry I opened this can of worms...
June 11, 2013: EF 60%
June 25, 2013: Last Herceptin. wow...
Aug 20, 2013: Tumor markers within normal limits. Xray to sore left ribs shows no disease or fractures.
Sept 9, 2013: CT of lungs shows no disease. Closing this can of worms and moving on.
Nov 20, 2013: Tumor markers within normal limits. Severe Vit D deficiency, started on prescription Vit. D. Blaming chemo for this.
Feb 2014: Tumor markers within normal limits.
May 2014: Tumor markers within normal limits. Graduated to twice yearly onc appts.
Oct 2014: Tumor markers within normal limits.
May 2015: Tumor markers WNL. Bone density scan fine. Bone scan and xray of ribs shows "something" 4th right rib. Could be healed fracture but if it is healed why does it hurt?
Nov 2015: Tumor markers WNL. Follow up bone scan clear.
Feb 2016: Syncope! WTF? Dizzy too. Brain scan clear, ECHO EF 60%, Halter Monitor shows heart is fine. Viral? I will never know.
June 2016: Tumor markers WNL.
Oct 2016: Stabbing pain right eye. Long story short, trigeminal neuralgia.
Nov 2016 Brain MRI clear.
Jan 2017: Tumor markers WNL, still getting weird pain right rib area, and sometimes right upper chest. Xray x2, Bone Scan, Breast MRI all clear. Scar tissue? Rads. I may never know.
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Old 11-24-2013, 10:39 AM   #2
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Re: Memorial Service for Denise This Friday

I really want to go but I have 5 house guests for Thanksgiving who are not leaving until Saturday so I am pretty sure I can't (as they are my family and not my husband's). I would only be an hour or so away (coming from a different direction from you). However, I promise if something changes, I will immediately contact you here or private message you.
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Old 11-24-2013, 10:41 AM   #3
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Thanks Becky.
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Old 11-24-2013, 10:47 AM   #4
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Re: Memorial Service for Denise This Friday

I really wish I could go, and ordinarily I would be able to do that (though it's more like 6 hours of travel than just 1), but I'll be in Denver for Thanksgiving. I'll be with you in spirit! Hopefully someone will be there with you in body.
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Old 11-24-2013, 10:48 AM   #5
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Old 11-24-2013, 11:10 AM   #6
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Re: Memorial Service for Denise This Friday

THEY LIVE SREAMED BRENDA'S SERVICE. I watched on Caring Bridge.

I was so impressed. My daughter (now 45) lost a college friend a few years back, in Michigan -- and same. They live streamed the whole service for adoring friends across the country to "BE THERE"... They really really wanted to be but distance, circumstances, etc....... prevented that. But this was brilliant.

My heart is with Denise always. Truly. And most especially from the very moment I read she had died. It was just so inconceivable!

We talk now all the time!

And I find myself sending (Ted -- my father's name, who died in 1977 -- Nov 16 -- I just recently lit a yahtzeit candle for him -- and the other night for my mom who died in 2001 -- Nov 23) I digress. I apologize.

I find myself sending Ted and Jack and Ben my heartfelt condolences.

Denise had so many siblings! And has a mom who has lived to go through all this! And I send them each and every one my love and want them to know the sheer delight their Denise has given so many as she cheerfully and with unique comic flair fought off the bad guys -- canser (misspelling intended as disrespect and loathing) cells. Terrorists of our bodies...

Love to all my Sisters and Brothers too,
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Old 11-24-2013, 07:47 PM   #7
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Re: Memorial Service for Denise This Friday

I am all the way in California . . . so can't attend. I am glad that you will be going to represent us. We will all be there in spirit to wish our dear friend a fond farewell. I hope that another one of us is able to join you in person.

Thank you Leah.
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Old 11-24-2013, 10:29 PM   #8
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Re: Memorial Service for Denise This Friday

Leah, I too will be with you in spirit. I truly hope someone can join you. But you will represent us well
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Old 11-25-2013, 03:49 AM   #9
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Re: Memorial Service for Denise This Friday

Thanks Elizabeth and Bonnie. I sure do wish the two of you lived on the east coast.
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Old 11-25-2013, 08:36 AM   #10
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Re: Memorial Service for Denise This Friday

Leah,
I was really hoping to but I just looked it up and and its 6 1/2 hours for me. I would spend the entire day driving since I cant spend the night. Being Thanksgiving weekend, I will also be leaving some guests to attend. It breaks my heart that I will not be there. Im in Ohio. If anything changes I will let you. I would like to be there.

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Old 11-25-2013, 11:30 AM   #11
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Re: Memorial Service for Denise This Friday

What is comforting: Denise, no doubt, had a straight ascension to the hand of the Father she so loved. And that is what awed me most about her: her faith, through good and bad.
I will not be able to attend her service, but what a bubble of love will be there.
With love,
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Diagnosed: June 2010, liver mets. ER-/PR+10%; HER2+++.
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January 2011: NED
April 2011: Progression in liver only. Other previous affected areas eradicated. Stop Taxol/Herceptin after 32 infusions.
May 2011: Brain MRI: clear.
May 2011: Begin Tykerb daily, Xeloda twice per day for one week on, one week off, and Herceptin.
November 2011: Progression in liver. All other tumors remain eradicated.
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Trial requires scans every six weeks, bloodwork and infusions weekly.
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January 2012: NED. Liver mets, good riddance!
March 2012: NED. Developed SMA (rare blood clot) in intestinal artery and loss of sight in right eye due to optical nerve neuropathy. Resolved when Taxol removed this month.
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May 2012: NED.
June 2012: Brain MRI: clear.
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January-March 2013: NED.
June 2013: Brain MRI: clear. CEA upticking; CT shows new met on liver.
July 3, 2013: DISASTER STRIKES during liver ablation: sloppy surgeon cuts intercostal artery and I bleed out, lose 3.5 liters of blood, have major hemothorax, and collapsed lung requiring emergency resuscitative thoracotomy, lung surgery, rib rearrangement and cutting deep connective tissue, transfusion. Ablation incomplete. This life-saving procedure would end up causing me unforgiving pain with every movement I make, permanently, otherwise known as forever.
July 26, 2013: Try Navelbine/Herceptin. Body too weak after surgery and transfusion. Fever. CEA: Normal.
August 16, 2016: second dose Navelbine/Herceptin; CEA: Normal. Will skip doses. Watching and waiting.
September 2013: NED, Herceptin only. CEA: Normal. Started Arimidex.
October-November 2013: NED. Herceptin and Arimidex. CEA, CA125, 15-3: Normal.
December 2013: Something brewing. PET lights up on little spot on liver; CEA upward trend, just outside normal. PET and triphasic liver scan confirm Little Met. Restart Perjeta with Herceptin, stay on Arimidex. Genomic sequencing completed for future treatments, if necessary.
January 2014: Ablate Little Met on the 6th. Happy New Year.
March 2014: Brain MRI: clear. PET/CT reveal liver mets return; new lung mets. This is not funny.
March 2014: BEGIN TRIAL #10-005 A(11)-Temsirolimus plus Neratinib.
April 2014: Genomic testing indicated they could work, they did not. Very strange drug combo for me, felt weird.
April 2014: Started Navelbine and Herceptin. Needed something tried and true, but had significant progression.
June 2014: Doxil and Herceptin.
July 2014: Progression. Got nothing out of it. Brain: NED.
July 2014: Add integrative medical hematologist-oncologist to my team. Begin supplements. These are tumor-busting, immune system boosters. Add glutathione, lysine and taurine IV infusions every three weeks.
July 2014: Begin Gemzar, Herceptin & Perjeta. Happy.
August 2014: ECHO perfect.
January 2015: Begin weekly Vitamin D Analog infusions. 25 mcg. via port.
February 2015: CT: stable.
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Old 11-25-2013, 02:55 PM   #12
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Re: Memorial Service for Denise This Friday

An older and dear friend passed a few yrs ago. I was always struck by his incredible will to live (past major heart surgeries, through prostate cancer, etc.).

But it was his fervent wish to LIVE, not exist. Be in a wheelchair. Not be "himself". And I thoroughly agree with that perspective. I've lived through my mother's alzheimers (all 12 yrs of it, 3 at home with round the clock aides I arranged, and 9 in a nursing home). She became paralyzed. Unable to speak or understand most of what you said. Read or book or watch a television show. She could not feed or bathe herself, nor go to the bathroom herself.

When my dear friend was on vacation with his family, in Miami, he had another major heart attack. In the hospital, the docs thought that if he could hold on till tomorrow, they could possibly do risky surgery to help him live. There was no guarantee he would be the same man he was though.

His sons and my beloved friend (his wife) held his hand as he lay unable to speak, but clearly fighting, as was his nature. His will to live was fierce. His family discussed it all with him and he blinked, understanding.

He passed a few hours later...

It is my conviction that he was drawn to the Light and told what would be, that he wouldn't be the man he was, and he chose to let go. We were all stunned and deeply saddened.

But when I thought about how certain he was that he wanted to live and not to exist, I reasoned as I am explaining to you.

When I think of Denise, knowing her fervent wish to live, but to retain her mind and her wit and her fabulous communication skills -- the things that made her "her" -- I believe that something similar happened with her. She was shown what the future would hold for her, alive but not herself, and she chose to decline though she passionately wanted to remain with her darling family, Ted, Jack and Ben.

I would have to say I would make the same choice.

So my friend Irwin, and our dear Denise, made their choices I believe and I accept their decision whole-heartedly, difficult though it is...

Now vivacious, comedically gifted Denise is her truest Self, consciousness in a new vessel on another plane of being. I still love you, Denise. I know you know that...

All our hearts will continue to be with Denise, through this week and for eons of weeks to come, through the holidays as someone wisely noted, explaining the reason for our reserved sadness yet grateful to enjoy the blessings we have. We will be with her and her large family through Thanksgiving and most especially at her Memorial Service. May God bless her and her remarkable family, now and throughout time...

Dust to dust, as Denise wanted. We're all stardust after all. The Soul is energy. Energy cannot be created nor destroyed. Denise lives on, in another way, in another dimension...

That's what I think... Sending Love and Blessings and Light...with all my heart...

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+ good old Vit H wkly for 1st 3 yrs, then triple dosage ev 3 wks for 7 yrs more... The "easy" chemo, right?! Not a walk in the park, but not a freight train coming at 'ya either...

Added Herceptin Nov '98 (6 wks after FDA fast-tracked it for met bc). Stayed w/Vit H till July '08! Now I AM FREE! Humbly and eternally grateful for this life-saving drug! NED since '99 and planning on keeping it that way. To hell w/poor prognosis and nasty stats! STOPPED VIT H JULY '08...! REMAIN STABLE... Eternally grateful...Yes is a world & in this world of yes live (skillfully curled) all worlds ... (e e cummings) EVERY DAY I BEAT MY PREVIOUS RECORD FOR # OF CONSECUTIVE DAYS I'VE STAYED ALIVE. Smile KNOWING you too can be a miracle. Up to me and God now...
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Old 11-25-2013, 07:34 PM   #13
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Darlene Karen Andi, thanks. I know everyone will be there in spirit. I hope to meet ALL of you someday, under happier circumstances.
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Old 11-25-2013, 07:42 PM   #14
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I hope so Leah. We have a nice cluster here in NY, so the next time you come, please call us. I have made some wonderful lifetime friends here on the board, from East to West coasts. I visited Kim (Radiant) in San Francisco just a few weeks before she passed. She was never happy with her photographs so I would never post us together. Then we had a few taken with another member of the board here, and Kim didn't like that one either, although she looked great. So, yes, it would be wonderful to meet you, anytime, anyplace.
Oh, and during that trip, we had drinks with Jay (Courtney's husband). He is amazing. Well, we all knew that through his fantastic portrayal of his life with Courtney. We are one family after all.
Warm love,
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Graves Disease, became Euthyroid via Radioactive Iodine, June 2001.
Thyroid Eye Disease. 2003. Decompression surgery in 2009; eyelid lowering surgery in 2010.
Diagnosed: June 2010, liver mets. ER-/PR+10%; HER2+++.
July 2010: Begin Taxol/Herceptin. Eliminate sugar from diet. No surgery or radiation.
January 2011: NED
April 2011: Progression in liver only. Other previous affected areas eradicated. Stop Taxol/Herceptin after 32 infusions.
May 2011: Brain MRI: clear.
May 2011: Begin Tykerb daily, Xeloda twice per day for one week on, one week off, and Herceptin.
November 2011: Progression in liver. All other tumors remain eradicated.
December 2011: BEGIN TRIAL #09-093 Taxol, MCC-DM1 (T-DM1), Perjeta.
Trial requires scans every six weeks, bloodwork and infusions weekly.
Brain MRI: clear.
January 2012: NED. Liver mets, good riddance!
March 2012: NED. Developed SMA (rare blood clot) in intestinal artery and loss of sight in right eye due to optical nerve neuropathy. Resolved when Taxol removed this month.
Continue Protocol of T-DM1 weekly and Perjeta every 3 weeks.
May 2012: NED.
June 2012: Brain MRI: clear.
June-December 2012: NED.
December 2012: TRIAL CONCLUDED; ENTER TRIAL EXTENSION #09-037. CT, Brain MRI, bone scan: clear. NED.
January-March 2013: NED.
June 2013: Brain MRI: clear. CEA upticking; CT shows new met on liver.
July 3, 2013: DISASTER STRIKES during liver ablation: sloppy surgeon cuts intercostal artery and I bleed out, lose 3.5 liters of blood, have major hemothorax, and collapsed lung requiring emergency resuscitative thoracotomy, lung surgery, rib rearrangement and cutting deep connective tissue, transfusion. Ablation incomplete. This life-saving procedure would end up causing me unforgiving pain with every movement I make, permanently, otherwise known as forever.
July 26, 2013: Try Navelbine/Herceptin. Body too weak after surgery and transfusion. Fever. CEA: Normal.
August 16, 2016: second dose Navelbine/Herceptin; CEA: Normal. Will skip doses. Watching and waiting.
September 2013: NED, Herceptin only. CEA: Normal. Started Arimidex.
October-November 2013: NED. Herceptin and Arimidex. CEA, CA125, 15-3: Normal.
December 2013: Something brewing. PET lights up on little spot on liver; CEA upward trend, just outside normal. PET and triphasic liver scan confirm Little Met. Restart Perjeta with Herceptin, stay on Arimidex. Genomic sequencing completed for future treatments, if necessary.
January 2014: Ablate Little Met on the 6th. Happy New Year.
March 2014: Brain MRI: clear. PET/CT reveal liver mets return; new lung mets. This is not funny.
March 2014: BEGIN TRIAL #10-005 A(11)-Temsirolimus plus Neratinib.
April 2014: Genomic testing indicated they could work, they did not. Very strange drug combo for me, felt weird.
April 2014: Started Navelbine and Herceptin. Needed something tried and true, but had significant progression.
June 2014: Doxil and Herceptin.
July 2014: Progression. Got nothing out of it. Brain: NED.
July 2014: Add integrative medical hematologist-oncologist to my team. Begin supplements. These are tumor-busting, immune system boosters. Add glutathione, lysine and taurine IV infusions every three weeks.
July 2014: Begin Gemzar, Herceptin & Perjeta. Happy.
August 2014: ECHO perfect.
January 2015: Begin weekly Vitamin D Analog infusions. 25 mcg. via port.
February 2015: CT: stable.
April 2015: Gem working, but not 100%. Looking into immunotherapy. Finally, treatments for the 21st century!
April 2015: Penn Medicine. Dendritic cell immunotherapy.
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Old 11-29-2013, 04:49 PM   #15
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Re: Memorial Service for Denise This Friday

Friends,

I was able to attend Denise's memorial service today. Must have been over 100 people there, no big surprise. There was a laptop set up that ran a continuous stream of photo's of Denise and her family. I was able to meet and hug her husband Ted (great hugger btw) and also meet (again, she and I met briefly back in April) and hug her little sister Sally and Sally's daughter Erin. I met Jack and Ben too, such handsome young men but refrained from forcing them to hug some strange lady.

Denise's sister in law Martha gave a beautiful eulogy, there wasn't a dry eye in the house. She was so loved. Teds brother sang a wonderful rendition of Ava Marie. Just beautiful.

I can see why she loved her church and pastor so much, such a feeling of family.

I encouraged Ted and Sally to visit us here when they are ready.

It was a beautiful day to say goodbye to such a beautiful lady. A crisp and sun-shiny fall day, a perfect day for Denise.

I felt all of you there in spirit, holding hands with one another.

Leah
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Old 11-29-2013, 05:08 PM   #16
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Re: Memorial Service for Denise This Friday

Oh, Leah, how wonderful that you were able to attend and represent us. It sounds like a beautiful but bittersweet experience. God bless all concerned
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OncoType score 36 (July 07)
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Began Herceptin alone 10/07
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Old 11-29-2013, 05:23 PM   #17
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Re: Memorial Service for Denise This Friday

Thanks you so much for sharing. I have been thinking all day of our wonderful Denise. I'm so sad.
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5/20/13 BRAC 1&2 neg
5/28/13 lumpectomy and SNB, ER/PR/Her-2+, Nodes neg,positive margins
6/13/13 revision of margins . Now clear
6/26/13 first TCH
Chemo Ninja~kutaki Zika Zukuchiri
10/18/13-Bx of calcification-neg whew
11/7/13 Started Radiation.
01/2014- Started Tamoxifen
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Old 11-29-2013, 06:14 PM   #18
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Thank you, Leah for being there. I know we all wanted to join you. Thank you for sharing the experience in detail.

Of course, Ted is a good hugger, he's obviously an exceptionally warm and caring human being! I can just see her handsome boys, and having grandsons, I understand not wanting to impose yourself. I'm sure they could use a hug. Who couldn't???!!!

So appreciate you reporting in to us, Leah. Love your heart!

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'95 post-meno dx Invasive LOBULAR w/9cm tumor! YIKES + 2/21 nodes. Clear mammo 10 mnths earlier. Mastec/tram flap reconst/PORT/8 mnths chemo (4Adria/8CMF). Borderline ER/PR. Tamoxifen 2 yrs. Felt BLESSED. I could walk and talk, feed and bathe myself! I KNEW I would survive...

'98 -- multiple mets to liver. HER2+ 80%. ER/PR- Raging, highly aggressive tumors spreading fast. New PORT. 9 mnths Taxotere Fought fire w/fire! Pronounced in cautious remission 5/99. Taxotere weekly for 6 wks, 2 wks off -- for 9 mnths. TALK ABOUT GRUELING! (I believe they've altered that protocol since those days -- sure hope so!!)
+ good old Vit H wkly for 1st 3 yrs, then triple dosage ev 3 wks for 7 yrs more... The "easy" chemo, right?! Not a walk in the park, but not a freight train coming at 'ya either...

Added Herceptin Nov '98 (6 wks after FDA fast-tracked it for met bc). Stayed w/Vit H till July '08! Now I AM FREE! Humbly and eternally grateful for this life-saving drug! NED since '99 and planning on keeping it that way. To hell w/poor prognosis and nasty stats! STOPPED VIT H JULY '08...! REMAIN STABLE... Eternally grateful...Yes is a world & in this world of yes live (skillfully curled) all worlds ... (e e cummings) EVERY DAY I BEAT MY PREVIOUS RECORD FOR # OF CONSECUTIVE DAYS I'VE STAYED ALIVE. Smile KNOWING you too can be a miracle. Up to me and God now...
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Re: Memorial Service for Denise This Friday

Thank you so much Leah. I didn't have an updated passport. I couldn't attend. But Ted should be receiving 25 red roses from me on behalf of us on this board any day now.
Nora
I could feel it all the way up here, very conscious during the day of what time it was at Denise's funeral.
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found plum sized lump in right breast the day before my dad died: April 17th 2011. saw it in mirror, while i was wearing a top, examining my figure after losing 10 lbs on dr. bernstein diet.
diagnosed may 10 2011

mast/lymphectomy: june 7 2011, 5/20 cancerous nodes. stage 3a before radiation oncologist during our first mtg on july 15th says he found cancer on the lymph node of my breast bone. Now stage 3b.
her2+++, EN-, PN-. Rt brst tumors:3 at onset, 4.5 cm was the big one
chemos: 3fec's followed by 3 taxotere, total of 18 wks chemo. sept: halfway thru chemo the mastectomy scar decides to open and ooze pus. (not healed before chemo) eventually with canasten powder sent by friend in ny (illegal in canada) it heals.
radiations:although scheduled to begin 25 january 2012, I am so terrified by it (rads cause other cancers) I don't start til february, miss a bunch, reschedule them all and finally finish 35 rads mid april. reason for 7 extra atop the 28 scheduled is that when i first met my rads oncologist he said he saw a tumor on the lymph node of my breastbone. extra 7 are special kind of beam used for that lymphnode. rads onc tells me nobody ever took so long to do rads so he cannot speak for effectiveness. trials had been done only on consecutive days so......we'll see.....
10 mos of herceptin started 6 wks into chemo. canadian onc says 10 mos is just as effective as the full yr recommended by dr. slamon......so we'll see..completed july 2012.
Sept 18 2012: reconstruction and 3 drains. fails. i wear antibiotic pouch on my job for two months and have 60 consecutive days visiting a nursing centre where they apply burn victims' silver paper and clean the oozing infection daily. silicone leaks out daily. plastic surgeon in caribbean. emergency dept wont remove "his" work. He finally appears and orders me in into an emergency removal of implant. I make him promise no drains and I get my way. No infection as a result. Chest looks like a map of Brazil. Had a perfectly good left breast on Sept 17th but surgeon wanted to "save another woman an operation" ? so he had crashed two operations together on my left breast, foregoing the intermediary operation where you install an expander. the first surgeon a year earlier had flat out refused to waste five hours on his feet taking both boobs. flat out refusal. between the canadian health system saving money and both these asses, I got screwed. who knows when i can next get enough time off work (i work for myself and have no substitute when my husband is on contract) to get boobs again. arrrgh.


I have a blog where I document this trip and vent.
www.nora'scancerblog.blogspot.com . I stopped the blog before radiation. I think the steroids made me more angry and depressed and i just hated reading it anymore
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Old 11-30-2013, 06:46 PM   #20
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Re: Memorial Service for Denise This Friday

Thanks, Leah. What a beautiful service for a beautiful lady! Thanks to you too, Nora, for sending the roses on our behalf!
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7mm invasive component
Partial mast. 5/08
Stage 1b, ER 80%, PR 90%, HER-2 6.9 on FISH
0/5 nodes
4 AC, 4 TH finished 9/08
Herceptin every 3 weeks. Finished 7/09
Tamoxifen 10/08. Switched to Femara 8/09
Bilat SPM w/reconstruction 10/08
Clinical Trial w/Clondronate 12/08
Stopped Clondronate--too hard on my gizzard!
Switched back to Tamoxifen due to tendon pain from Femara

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