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04-03-2009, 04:12 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Sheboygan, WI
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Marie and Ed....I'm so sorry this has happened to you. All the things I could say seem very inadequate right now.
Again, I'm sorry this has happened to you Marie. So sorry!
Mary Jo
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"Be still and know that I am God." Psalm 46:10
Dx. 6/24/05 age 45 Right Breast IDC ER/PR. Neg., - Her2+++ RB Mast. - 7/28/05 - 4 cm. tumor Margins clear - 1 microscopic cell 1 sent. node No Vasucular Invasion 4 DD A/C - 4 DD Taxol & Herceptin 1 full year of Herceptin received every 3 weeks 28 rads prophylactic Mast. 3/2/06
17 Years NED
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04-03-2009, 05:08 PM
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I am sorry too. Like you didn't have enough stress already. Please take care and may another opportunity come for you when you need it....
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Are we there yet?
Dx 10/05 IDC, multi-focal, triple +, 5 nodes+
MRM, 4 DD A/C, 12 weekly taxol + herceptin
rads concurrent with taxol/herceptin
finished herceptin 01/08
ooph, Arimidex, bilateral DIEP reconstruction
NED
Univ. of WA, Seattle vaccine trial '07
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04-03-2009, 05:30 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Posts: 508
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Hello Marie. I'm a real "newbie" but wanted to send along my best wishes too. I am praying for you and your husband. Hope you can find a way to come back to this board where you are so loved.
Barb
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04-03-2009, 05:34 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Posts: 556
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Wishing you a better job will be in your doorsteps while you are enjoying your free time.
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Diagnosed in Sept 2004 while pregnant with the second child. Stage 3b, tumor 4.5cm, 4 auxillary and supraclav node positive. Her2+++ FISH 9.4 and er-,pr-.
Had dose dense neoadjuvant AC,Taxol then mastectomy,radiation+xeloda+Herceptin.
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04-03-2009, 06:05 PM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Mountains of Virginia
Posts: 2,267
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Marie,
Make the most of the time you have now with Ed and MIL. Very soon you'll have a new job that will take your time! Look for all the possibilities!
Keeping you in my prayers as always,,
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Rhonda (Sassy)
dx age 45
DX 2/15/05 Stage IIb (at surgery)restaged IIIa
Left mast .9cm tumor 5 of 14 nodes
Triple Positive
4 DD A/C
12 Taxol/Herceptin
33Rads
Strange infect mast site one year aft surg, hosp 1 wk
Herceptin for total of 18 months
Lupron Monthly 4 yrs
Neurontin for aches, pains and hot flashes(It works!)
Ovaries removed 11/09 stop Lupron and Neurontin
Arimidex 6 yrs (tried Femara, no SE improvement)
Tried Exemestane-hips got so bad could hardly walk
Back to Arimidex for year seven
Zometa 2X Annual for 7years, Lasix
Stop Arimidex 5/13
Stop Zometa 7/13-Bi-lateral Stress Fractures in Femurs from Zometa
5/14 Start Tamoxifen
3/15 Stem cell transplant to stimulate femur bone growth/healing
5/15 Complete fracture of right femur/Titanium rods both femurs
9/16 Start Evista stopTamoxifen
3/17 Stop Evista--unwelcome side effects!
NED and no meds.......
14 YEARS NED!
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04-03-2009, 06:23 PM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Bayarea,CA
Posts: 679
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Dear Marie,
I am very sorry to hear about your job loss. God will find a way to help you. You are such a sweet soul with so much positive strength. Praying especially for you...and a great big hug for you!
love,
shobha
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DX: 06-30-2007 - left breast -stage IIIB, Her2/Neu 3+++, ER weakly positive, PR-
Taxol+herceptin weekly for 3 months
FEC+herceptin every 3 weeks for 3 months
BRCA 1 and 2 - Negative
Jan 2008 - Bilateral mastectomy, prophylactic Rt. side.
Radiation for 5 weeks
Completed my yr of herceptin on 07-14-2008
Brain MRI - 3/2/09 Clean
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04-03-2009, 06:51 PM
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Webmaster
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Home of the "Flying Tomato"
Carlsbad, CA
Posts: 2,036
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Marie,
If Ed is not collecting social security disability...Apply for it immediately. Your congressman will be of great help if you contact him.
If Marie needs a computer have her contact me.
Regards
Joe
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A Proud webmaster to the internet's most informed, educated, COMPASSIONATE and caring group of breast cancer survivors.
Illegitimi non carborundum
My Album
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04-03-2009, 06:58 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Posts: 589
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Marie,
I'm sooo sorry for what you're going through. I don't know how, but things do seem to always work out and I only hope your struggle is minimal until that time.
In the meantime please utilize the people that you know and allow them to think about who they know. Jobs are in such great demand these days that networking becomes very important. Try and put your freinds, relatives and acquaintances to work for you. You're a good person and sometimes that comes back to help you in situations like this, but you need to set the wheels in motion.
Best of luck and know that you have a family here that will try and talk you through this as best we can.
Eric
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04-03-2009, 09:56 PM
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Join Date: May 2006
Posts: 3,142
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I just lost my job~~~~will be away for a little bit
Marie,
Like some of us say in Hawaii, "How rude" (of your employer) to let you go.
Can you apply for Cobra health insurance, which is good for 18 months after job loss? I am not sure where to apply, but your former employer or a state agency might know.
Take care. I hope you get a great new job.
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04-03-2009, 10:21 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Cordoba, Mexico
Posts: 672
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Marie,
Just remember that when one door closes, another one opens. Things will be fine, I am sure. You are a real inspiration to me and to many others in this board, I am sure. God loves you and he has a reason for this turning point in your life.
All my love,
Paty
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Dx. June 30th, 2006 at age 43
Lumpectomy rt breast
2.2 cm tumor, 13 nodes all negative
ER-PR+,her2+++
6 FAC
32 Rads
Dx. Lung fibrosis due to radiation
Ended 1 year herceptin in March, 2008
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04-04-2009, 02:49 AM
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Ireland
Posts: 3,463
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I'm so sorry to hear this Marie and can understand your shock.
Job loss's are world wide right now and here in Ireland it's no different.
I can only echo what the other wonderful people have said, ask for help and apply for all your entitlements asap.
I hope Joe can help to get you back online with us asap!
You'll both be in my thoughts. ((((hugs))))
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Tricia
Dx July '05 IDC 1.9cm Triple positive 3/9 nodes positive
A/C X 4 ..Taxol/Herceptin x 12 wks then herceptin 1 yr
Rads x 36 ..oophorectomy August '06
Currently taking Arimidex..
June 2011 osteopenia/ zometa x1 yearly- stopped Zometa 2015 as Dexa show normal bone density.
Stopped Arimidex July 2014- Restarted Arimidex 2015 for a further two years on the advice of my Onc.
2014 Normal Dexa scan
2018 Mammo all clear, still NED!
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04-04-2009, 04:57 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Avilla, Indiana
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Marie, this is awful and happening everyday here in northern Indiana. Give yourself a few days to re-group then you'll find the "open windows". Hang in there and know many are praying for you.
Hugs,
Dana
P.S. I have many friends out of work. It's this crappy economy.
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Diagnosed - Nov. 2, 2007 at 45
Lumpectomy - Nov. 13, 2007
Tumor 1.2 cm
Stage 1 Grade 3
ER/PR - Her2 +++ (3.8)
Taxotere/Carboplatin/Herceptin- 6 rounds
Neulasta
Radiation 33 treatments - will be done 6/6/08
Herceptin through 12/08
12/07 MUGA 61%, 4/08 MUGA 60%, 7/08 MUGA 64%
three wonderful daughters, a terrific husband,
Life is Good
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04-04-2009, 06:35 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: South Dakota.
Posts: 621
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No one knows why such heartache, trama, and sorrow has to happen to anyone. There is a silver lining in this somewhere. Praying for you and hoping that an answer will come to you very soon. Remember, you are never alone.
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Blessings and Peace,
Barbara
DX Oct 02 @ age 52 Stage 2B Grade 3 Mastectomy
"at least" 4.5 cm IDC 1+node ER+61% /PR-
Assiciated Intraductual component with Comedo Necrosis
Her2+ FISH8.6 IHC 2+
5 1/2 CEF Arimidex
Celebrex 400mg daily for 13 months
Prophylactic mastectomy
Estradiol #: 13
PTEN positive, "late" Herceptin (26 months after chemo)
Oct 05: Actonel for osteopenia from Arimidex.
May 08: Replaced Actonel with Zometa . Taking every 6
months.
Accepting the gift of life, I give thanks for it and live it in fullness.
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04-04-2009, 07:17 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Posts: 1,851
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Marie,
I'm very sorry about your job. Besides being in shock, you must be very angry. And I don't blame you.
The fear of losing a job is real. Two weeks ago my company let go three people in our group and is going to cut pay temporarily by 10% starting May 1.
I now wonder what's going to happen near the end of the second quarter. Will there be more layoffs so the company can meet its budget? My main concern is losing my health insurance.
I try to tell myself that God will take care of me no matter what happens, and there are plans in the works for you and Ed to come out stronger.
I'm praying for you dear sister.
Hugs,
Joan
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Diagnosed stage 2b in July 2003 (2.3 cm, HER2+, ER-/PR-, 7+ nodes). Treated with mastectomy (with immediate DIEP flap reconstruction), AC + T/Herceptin (off label). Cancer advanced to lung in Jan. 2007 (1 cm nodule). Started Herceptin every 3 weeks. Lung wedge resection April 2007. Cancer recurred in lung April 2008. RFA of lung in August 2008. 2nd annual brain MRI in Oct. 2008 discovered 2.6 cm cystic tumor in left frontal lobe. Craniotomy Oct. 2008 (ER-/PR-/HER2-) followed by targeted radiation (IMRT). Coughing up blood Feb. 2009. Thoractomy July 2009 to cut out fungal ball of common soil fungus (aspergillus) that grew in the RFA cavity (most likely inhaled while gardening). No cancer, only fungus. Removal of tiny melanoma from upper left arm, plus sentinel lymph node biopsy in Feb. 2016. Guardant Health liquid biopsy in Feb. 2016 showed mutations in 4 subtypes of TP53. Repeat of Guardant Health biopsy in Jana. 2021 showed 3 TP53 mutations, BRCA1 mutation and CHEK2 mutation. Invitae genetic testing showed negative for all of these. Living with MBC since 2007. Stopped Herceptin Hylecta (injection) treatment in March 2020. Recent 2021 annual CT of chest, abdomen and pelvis and annual brain MRI showed NED. Praying for NED forever!!
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04-04-2009, 08:25 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: san luis obispo, ca
Posts: 1,150
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Oh, Marie and ed, I am so sorry you lost your job. It is like being in the twilight Zone all of a sudden.
There are still good jobs out there, and with your network of friends and family something good will happen. This is just one more path to travel, one you weren't expecting. I am praying that the answers will come soon and that you will be able to spend more time with Ed in the meantime.
I know what a loss you are feeling right now. Worry sets in and it seems that things are falling apart. But, dear sister, you will triumph as you have so many times before, the bulbs will bloom, the skies will turn blue, and you will find a better job than the one you just left. Everything happens for a reason and this, too, will pass.
I love you and send you many prayers and deep friendship today.
Love, vickie
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Love and Hugs, Vickie
Life's not about waiting for the storm to pass,
It's about learning to dance in the rain.
Feb 04 IBC IIIC/IV er-/pr- her2+++
3/04 TCH X4
7/ 04 MRM 9/04 Taxol/herceptin wkly 1 yr 33X rads
11/04 skin mets 33x rads,10/05 Avast/Herc. 11 mos.
8/ 06 PET mets lymphs, neck
9/ 06 Navelbine/herceptin
11/ 06 PET NED
2/ 07 skin mets, 4/07 Xeloda, 5/07 add Tykerb
2/ 08 Tykerb failed. Doxil /Herceptin 6 months
8/08 PET skin mets, 8/08 Abraxane/Avastin
11/ 08 PET prog., skin mets
1/09 PET/CT progress, 1/09 Ixempra, 2/09 add Xeloda and low dose Naltrexone
2/09 off Ixempra/Xeloda
3/09 navelbine/herc/cytoxin 4/09 PET shows regress.7/09 start Topotecan. Failed.
8/09 extensive mets rgt brst, back and torso. starting Pazopanib clinical trial.
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04-04-2009, 08:49 AM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Evergreen, Colorado
Posts: 454
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Marie,
I would expect that there is a period of "grieving" that occurs with a job loss. Please allow yourself that moment.
In the short run...go to the library for internet access...please don't go radio silent as your warmth and constant sincerity would be a huge loss for all of us on the site.
We can continue to provide ideas to get you on a new (AND BETTER) path. We've seen the power of miracles on this site and I am confident this is going to be another one. You have received an incredible gift of TIME, which can never be created or relived. Now....let's make this gift work for you.
Already great words of advice....get Ed on Social Security and Medicare. Leverage COBRA for insurance and as Chrisy was headed down this path, get the assistance to help pay for part of it.
We are here for you....as you've been here for us. Please stay in touch so we can help.
Big ole hug comin your way....Lori
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2007
Oct - Diagnosed - Stage IV 5 c.m. IDC - Left Side er/pr- Her2+++ Node + 2/14 - Single Liver Met Double Mastectomy Nov - Begin T+H 2008
Feb-Complete 6 cycles- T&H- NED
March - Continue - Herceptin Only
April - Rads for 6 weeks
2009
Continue Herceptin - Continue NED
April - Recurrance- 3 cm. Liver Met
May - Cryosurgery
June - November - Abraxane + Herceptin
Aug - PET/CT - CTC = 0 Back to NED
2010
January - Continue NED
July - Recurrance - 3 cm Liver Met CTC=1
August - Cryosurgery #2
August - November Navelbine
November - Back to NED - End Navelbine
2011
Feb - Recur - 4 cm Liver Met - Same Left Lobe
March Surgery it is -Couldn't get a clean margin
July - Confirmed continued liver involvement
August - Begin Herceptin + Tykerb
October - Mixed results from H+T
Add Abraxane + H + T - Nov - April
2012
January PET Scan - It's working!!
April - Back to NED
July - Recurrance
August - Begin TDM-1 Trial (Taxol + TDM-1)
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04-04-2009, 09:34 PM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Shingle Springs, CA - near Sacramento
Posts: 295
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Marie!
This is just awful! I know things will change, I know you have the kind of attitude to pull yourself up after this fall - but I worry about your health. Please know I am praying for you too, with all the prayers surrounding you surely you will be lifted out of this mess.
Love to you and to Mighty Oak
Donna
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Donna in the Sierra Foothills of California
Diagnosed 6/7/06 invasive ductal carcinoma/ductal carcinoma in situ
Lumpectomy 6/21/06
Pathology: Er 99% Pr 10% Her2/neu 3+
DNA Index 1.0
S-Phase 3/High
Primary Tumor 2.4 cm Sentinel Node Tumor 2.1cm
A/C/T+ Herceptin + rads + Arimidex
stopped Herceptin after 7 mos. due to low MUGA
Surgery for thickened uterine tissue May 2008 - conclusion: side effect of Arimidex
Switched from Arimidex to Femara - joint/tendon problems significantly better!
2 year mark Pet scan and Echo shows all clear!
5 year mammogram with ultrasound shows no sign of cancer - yay!
11 years, 11 months new breast cancer - found lump
Mastectomy 4/30/2018
Pathology: Er99%, PR 28%, Her2 negative! (new type)
Faslodex
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04-05-2009, 12:54 AM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: Hilo, Hawaii
Posts: 1,867
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Marie, I know you are in shock. Hopefully, things will work for the best in the long run. We are all here if you need us. Wishing you strength, peace and love, something no one can take from you.
Maryanne
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*** MARYANNE *** aka HARRIECANARIE
1993: right side DCIS, lumpectomy, rads
1999: left side DCIS, lumpectomy, rads, tamoxifen
2006:
BRCA 2 positive
Stage I, invasive DCIS (6mm x 5mm)
Grade: intermediate
sentinal node biopsy: neg
HER2/neu amplified 4.7
ER+/PR+
TOPO II neg
Oncotype dx 20
Bilat mastectomy with DIEP flap reconstruction
oophorectomy
2007:
6 cycles TCH (taxotere, carboplatin, herceptin)
finished 1 yr herceptin 05/07
Arimidex, stopped after almost 1 yr
Femara
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04-05-2009, 01:20 AM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: I live in Christmas, MI - located on the shores of Lake Superior.
Posts: 606
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I agree with the rest....but I'm thinking of you.
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Barb
10/03 Radical Mastectomy 3 cm tumor - 1/17 Nodes Stage II B, Her 2 +++ ER-/PR- 11/03 4 AC 4 Taxol 12/05 Stage IV - Lung met , Bone mets - Carbo, Taxotere, Herceptin 9/06 - 2 cm brain tumor 10/06 - Tumor removal surgery - Herceptin Halted 12/06 gamma knife tumor base.1/07 Navelbine/Herceptin 4/07 Rads to R femur 5/07 Stereotactic - new 2 cm brain tumor 4/07 Start Xeloda 5/07 Tykerb added 7/07 Brain MRI clean 10/07 .055 cm brain met found. 12/07 Stereotactic -1 cm brain tumor Start Tykerb 11/07 Abraxane/Herceptin 5/08 Cisplatin, Gemcitabine/Herceptin 6/08 Stereotactic to 1cm 9/08 Stereotactic repeat (growth). 11/08 Pet Scan Good but new tiny met on L lung/dead Brain surgery (no cancer cells found/scar tissue) 1/09 Chemo restarted 2/09 Pet Scan Bad - R larger very active/active L active lymph nodes both sides of chest MRI- mets slight increase 2/09 Start Doxil/Tykerb Treatment
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04-05-2009, 08:43 AM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Poland Ohio just a little south of Youngstown.
Posts: 473
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Marie, I'm so sorry to hear of your job loss. It seems like when it rains, it pours. But we have to believe that when God closes one door, he opens another.
You know you and Ed are always in my thoughts and prayers. It's so sad, another case of bad things happening to such great people.
Keep your chin up and keep on BELIEVING.
extra big hugs to both of you.
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Susan
Age: 61
dx: 5/25/06
2 cm/ 0 nodes
Lumpectomy rt breast on 7/26/06
ER/PR- / Her2+++
A/C x 4
finished taxotere 2/07
finished 33 rads
Herceptin finished 12/07/07 Yippee!
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