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Old 10-26-2013, 10:37 PM   #1
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I had a double mastectomy. Has anyone just decided to go braless?
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Old 10-27-2013, 07:58 AM   #2
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Re: braless

I had a Left sided mastectomy. I have decided against reconstruction and I go braless.
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Old 10-27-2013, 10:18 AM   #3
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Re: braless

I had a bilateral mastectomy in 2005 at the age of 45.

I have decided not to do reconstruction (hate hospitals and continual doc appts). I went braless at first; then switched to Coobies bras with very small insert; and now do combo of the two.

I wear a lot of black with colorful scarves and that let's me go braless at work without calling attention to a starkly flat chest.

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Old 10-27-2013, 07:03 PM   #4
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I had a double mastectomy with immediate reconstruction, and I don't wear a bra. I don't really see the point in wearing one. I don't have nipples, and they aren't saggy. Im 45 now, and had been wearing a bra day and night since I was 13. If I look okay without one now, Im just gonna go without!
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Old 10-27-2013, 07:48 PM   #5
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Re: braless

No bra...just cami's. I don't wear the cami's that have the bra top in them, just the plain ones with no bra liner.
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Old 10-27-2013, 08:26 PM   #6
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Re: braless

I was 'flat like a runway' (2nd Brother's comment when I was in high school and all my padded bra still fit after double mastectomy. I only wear them when I'm out shopping or in public places.
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Old 10-27-2013, 08:58 PM   #7
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Re: braless

Wouldn't even consider wearing a bra with reconstruction. I am flat and my stomach is big. The bra is uncomfortable.
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Old 10-28-2013, 04:12 AM   #8
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Re: braless

I had a bilateral mastectomy 8 years ago and no reconstruction...flat chested and I am very comfortable.
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Oncologist says, "Go do the Happy Dance"
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7-16 to 9-16. Extensive (and expensive) dental work done to save teeth. Damage from osteoporosis and chemo and long term bisphosphonate use
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Old 10-28-2013, 06:08 AM   #9
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Re: braless

double mastectomy//no reconstruction. I do whatever I feel
like doing. No bra, coobie bra, mastectomy bra with prostetics ...
Most of the time I am just in a t-shirt and vest.
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Old 10-28-2013, 06:10 AM   #10
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Re: braless

ok, just saw that nedenise is signed in. She's going to mention
that I forgot to say I also wear pants. I'm not naked from the
waist down.
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Old 10-28-2013, 07:44 AM   #11
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Re: braless

I had double mastectomy with reconstruction. I still wear bras just feels funny not wearing them plus had nipples done so when I wear tight shirts they stick out. I don't wear underwire bras thought. Still wear sports bras with work outs and when I mountain bike.
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Old 10-28-2013, 08:12 AM   #12
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Bilateral mastectomy, no reconstruction. I don't like not having breasts, but I do love not having to wear a bra. As for the appearance of the flat chest, I rarely think about it anymore. Initially I was quite careful about my clothing (ruffles, gathers, big cowls, etc), but not for long. I wear scrubs at work and casual (to put it mildly, smile) clothing most of the rest of the time and it's just regular clothing -- t shirts, tanks, whatever. Once I lost that hyper-awareness of the changes to my body, I realized that most people were not paying that much attention and really -- so what if they were, as long as I am confortable?

As for wearing a bra for the purpose of holding the prostheses, I found that I could not tolerate that. I thought that would be what I did, at least outside the house, and I tried, but man! If I felt obvious and uncomfortable with my flat chested appearance initially, the bra and "things" in it felt (to me) FAR more obvious and uncomfortable.

But I do think that for most of us who go flat, there was a period of adjustment, and it was measured in months and years (not days or weeks). Would others agree?

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Old 10-28-2013, 06:48 PM   #13
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Hi again...to answer Debbie, the adjustment period was a long one for me too...even though I chose to go «flat»...it was still an adjustment. I went from diagnosis to surgery in less than a month. Sometimes I feel that I am still adjusting to everything! Cancer does that. Still happy with my decision, never will be happy about the cancer!!!!
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age 54 at diagnosis
5/05 suspicious mammogram-left breast
5/05 biopsy-invasive lobular carcinoma with LCIS,8mm tumor,stage 1 grade 2, ER+ PR+ Her2+++
6/14/05 bilateral mastectomy, node neg. all scans neg.
Oncotype DX-high risk
8/05-10/05 4 rounds A/C
10/05 -10/06 1 yr. herceptin
arimidex-5 years
2/14/08 started daily self administered injections..FORTEO for severe osteoporosis
7/28/09 BRCA 1 negative BRCA2 POSITIVE
8/17/09 prophylactic salpingo-oophorectomy
10/15/10 last FORTEOinjection
RECLAST infusion(ostoeporosis)
6/14/10 5 year cancerversary!
8/2010-18%increase in bone density!
no further treatments
Oncologist says, "Go do the Happy Dance"
I say,"What a long strange trip its been"
'One day at a time'
6-14-2015. 10 YEAR CANCERVERSARY!
7-16 to 9-16. Extensive (and expensive) dental work done to save teeth. Damage from osteoporosis and chemo and long term bisphosphonate use
6-14-16. 11 YEAR CANCERVERSARY!!
7-20-16 Prolia injection for severe osteoporosis
2 days later, massive hive outbreak. This led to an eventual dx of Chronic Ideopathic Urticaria, an auto-immune disease from HELL.
6-14-17 12 YEAR CANCERVERSARY!!
still suffering from CIU. 4 hospitilizations in the past year

as of today, 10-31-17 in remission from CIU and still, CANCER FREE!!!
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Old 10-28-2013, 06:55 PM   #14
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Re: braless

Bilateral mastectomy, no reconstruction, no bra, no discomfort, no adjustment. And I wear mostly fitted tees and sweaters, so it's obvious to anyone who's paying attention, but I don't care.

As soon as I knew my husband wouldn't mind, I cancelled the appointment with the plastic surgeon, and I never looked back. I do have a Coobie in the drawer, but I've never worn it anywhere.

I am so thrilled to be done with bra straps that I don't even think about the fact that I'm flat.
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Old 10-28-2013, 09:48 PM   #15
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Re: braless

I do the Coobie when I'm out. I think more to not make other people uncomfortable. I couldn't care less. Although if I'm dressing up I might even put double pads in the Coobie!!! Oh la la!!
I like not wearing a bra. And I really dislike the weight of prosthesis
The bottom line is whatever one feels comfortable with
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Old 10-28-2013, 10:08 PM   #16
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Wow, Thank you for all the "bra" responses. I worry more about my big stomach but I am going to try big shirts. I love the Popeye quote.
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Old 10-28-2013, 10:57 PM   #17
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Wow a T & A day - guess I will weigh in on the T's since I've already talked more than enough about the A.

I had reconstruction a couple of times, due to skin mets. I am used to my weird, tiny man-made "breasts". Bras are all uncomfortable, sooner or later I take them off and layer up to camouflage.

The only time I miss my actual breasts, is when I see a naked woman (on TV or in a movie). Then it takes my breath away, sometimes bringing tears to my eyes, remembering what it was like to have real breasts, and what I lost.

I must also say thanks to Pink Girl - you gave me such a belly laugh about wearing pants, too. Good one!!
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3. increasing sclerosis & decreasing activity of L1 met “suggests” mild healing. (SUV 9.4 v 12.1 in May ‘13)
4. scattered lung nodules, up to 5mm in size = stable, no increased activity
5. other small scattered sclerotic lesions, one in right iliac and one in thoracic vertebral body similar in appearance to L1 without PET activity and not clearly pathologic
APRIL 2014 - 6 YRS POST GAMMA ZAP, 7 YRS MBC & 18 YEARS FROM ORIGINAL DX!
October 2014: hold avastin, continue HPX
Feb 2015 Cancer you lost. NEDHEAD 7 years post gamma zap miracle, 8 years ST4, +19 yrs original diagnosis.
Continue HPX. Adding back Avastin
Nov 2015 pet/ct is mixed result. L1 SUV is worse. Continue Herceptin/avastin/xgeva. Might revisit Perjeta for L1. Meantime going for rads consult for L1
December 2015 - brain stable. Continue Herceptin, Perjeta, Avastin and xgeva.
Jan 2016: 5 days, 20 grays, Rads to L1 and continue on HAPX. I’m trying to "save" TDM1 for next line. Hope the rads work to quiet L1. Sciatic pain extraordinaire :((
Markers drop post rads.
2/24/16 HAP plus X - markers are down
SCIATIC PAIN DEAL BREAKER.
3/23/16 Laminectomy w/coflex implant L4/5. NO MORE SCIATIC PAIN!!! Healing.
APRIL 2016 - 9 YRS MBC
July 2016 - continue HAP plus Xgeva.
DEC 2016 - PETCT: mets to sternum, lungs, L1 still about the same in size and PET activity. Markers not bad. Not making changes if I don't need to. Herceptin/Perjeta/Avastin/Xgeva
APRIL 2017 10 YEARS MBC
December 2017 - Progression - gonna switch it up
FEB 2018 - Kadcyla 3 cycles ---->progression :(
MAY30th - bronchoscopy, w/foundation1 - her2 enriched
Aug 27, 2018 - start clinical trial ZW25
JAN 2019 - ZW25 seems to be keeping me stable
APRIL 2019 - ONE DOZEN YEARS LIVING METASTATIC
MAY 2019 - progression back on herceptin add xeloda
JUNE 2019 - "6 mos average survival" LMD & CNS new single brain met - one zap during 5 days true beam SBRT to cord met
10/30/19 - stable brain and cord. progression lungs and bones. washing out. applying for ds8201a w nivolumab. hope they take me.
12/27/19 - begin ds8401a w nivolumab. after 2nd cycle nodes melt away. after 3rd cycle chest scan shows Improvement, brain MRI shows improvement, resolved areas & nothing new. switch to plain ENHERTU. after 4th cycle, PETscan shows mostly resolved or improved results. Markers near normal. I'm stunned but grateful.
10/26/20 - June 2021 Tucatinib/xeloda/herceptin - stable ish.
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Re: braless

Pink!
Naked from the waist down would almost certainly take everyone's attention away from the whole bra/no bra question! Worth a try? You brilliant girl, you!

For the record... having nipple recon was the biggest mistake I've made! Don't need 'em, don't like 'em, not foolin' anybody... and they stick out! They're the only reason I even have to consider bras or camis... these hard little fake breasts would have been just fine without these stupid bumps. Ah well... live and learn.

Still considering that whole naked from the waist down option though!!!
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