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Old 03-29-2013, 06:06 AM   #1
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Happy Birthday Mom (Sheila)

Today Sheila would have turned 61 years old. Love you Mom. :-*
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Old 03-29-2013, 07:00 AM   #2
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Re: Happy Birthday Mom (Sheila)

Tough day for you Jen.
I'll never forget your dear mother Sheila.
She fought so hard...

all the best
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Old 03-29-2013, 04:51 PM   #3
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Re: Happy Birthday Mom (Sheila)

Thank you for reminding us of your mom's birthday, Jen. After reading your post, I thought of her all day. She was such a support to me. I will never forget her.
Thinking of you,
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Old 03-29-2013, 05:57 PM   #4
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Re: Happy Birthday Mom (Sheila)

Dear Jen -

We all know she was too young to leave us for now, but she filled so many lives with love, knowledge and understanding while she could. She really did seem to live each day fully as if she may not have another chance.

Happy Birthday, dear friend!
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Old 03-29-2013, 07:02 PM   #5
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Re: Happy Birthday Mom (Sheila)

Just wanted to send a cyber hug to you, Jen. A bittersweet day for you, no doubt!!! (((((HUGS)))))
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Old 03-29-2013, 07:05 PM   #6
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Re: Happy Birthday Mom (Sheila)

Jen, your mom was the coolest. I know you miss her as do we. Take care and have a wonderful Easter weekend. Think of your Mom as the world begins to bloom again this spring.
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Old 03-30-2013, 01:27 AM   #7
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Re: Happy Birthday Mom (Sheila)

Jen,

Thanks for bringing up the memory of your Mom. It would have been nice if she'd been here to celebrate. We sure miss her...
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Old 03-30-2013, 10:04 AM   #8
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Re: Happy Birthday Mom (Sheila)

God bless you, Jen.
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found plum sized lump in right breast the day before my dad died: April 17th 2011. saw it in mirror, while i was wearing a top, examining my figure after losing 10 lbs on dr. bernstein diet.
diagnosed may 10 2011

mast/lymphectomy: june 7 2011, 5/20 cancerous nodes. stage 3a before radiation oncologist during our first mtg on july 15th says he found cancer on the lymph node of my breast bone. Now stage 3b.
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chemos: 3fec's followed by 3 taxotere, total of 18 wks chemo. sept: halfway thru chemo the mastectomy scar decides to open and ooze pus. (not healed before chemo) eventually with canasten powder sent by friend in ny (illegal in canada) it heals.
radiations:although scheduled to begin 25 january 2012, I am so terrified by it (rads cause other cancers) I don't start til february, miss a bunch, reschedule them all and finally finish 35 rads mid april. reason for 7 extra atop the 28 scheduled is that when i first met my rads oncologist he said he saw a tumor on the lymph node of my breastbone. extra 7 are special kind of beam used for that lymphnode. rads onc tells me nobody ever took so long to do rads so he cannot speak for effectiveness. trials had been done only on consecutive days so......we'll see.....
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Old 03-30-2013, 03:54 PM   #9
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Re: Happy Birthday Mom (Sheila)

Happy b-day Sheila and much love to you Jen. And Laurel speaks the truth.....your mom was the coolest. I only had the pleasure of one SABCS with her but she was the best.
Your mom will always be with you. That is how I feel about my parents- gone from my sight but not my heart and mind for many years.
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Old 03-30-2013, 09:07 PM   #10
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Re: Happy Birthday Mom (Sheila)

Jen,

Thank you for checking in here.

Sheila was such a wonderful, warm, kind, loving person. I miss her too.

Happy birthday, Sheila.
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4/29/11 CT scan shows suspicious lesions on liver and lungs
5/17/11 liver biopsy
5/24/11 liver met confirmed--Stage IV at diagnosis
5/27/11 Begin weekly Taxol & Herceptin for 3 months (standard of care at the time of my DX)
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8/29/11 CT scan shows no new lesions & old lesions shrinking
9/27/11 Finish Abraxane. Start Herceptin every 3 weeks. Begin taking Arimidex
10/17/11--Brain MRI--No Brain mets
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9/24/12 CT scan--No new mets. Everything stable.
3/11/13 CT Scan--two small new possible mets and odd looking area in left lung getting larger.
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11/13/13 PET scan mixed results again. We're calling it "stable." Problems breathing on exertion.
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6/8/14 PET "mixed," with no new lesions, and everything but lower lungs improving. My breathing is better.
8/18/14 PET "mixed" again. Upper lungs & one spine met stable, lower lungs less FDG avid, original tumor more avid, one lymph node in mediastinum more avid.
9/1/14 Begin taking Xeloda one week on, one week off. Will also stay on Herceptin and Perjeta every three weeks.
12/11/14 PET Scan--no new lesions, and everything looks better than it did.
3/20/15 PET Scan--no new lesions, but lower lung lesions larger and a bit more avid.
4/13/15 Increasing Xeloda dose to 10 days on, one week off.
7/1/15 Scan "mixed" again, but suggests continuing progression. Stop Xeloda. Substitute Abraxane every 3 weeks starting 7/13.
10/28/15 PET scan shows dramatic improvement everywhere. All lesions except lower lungs have resolved; lower lungs noticeably improved.
12/18/15 Last Abraxane. Continue on Herceptin and Perjeta alone beginning 1/8/16.
1/27/16 PET scan shows cancer is stable.
5/11/16 PET scan shows uptake in some areas that were resolved on the last two scans.
6/3/16 Begin Kadcyla and Tykerb combination
6/5 - 6/23 Horrible diarrhea from K&T together. Got pneumonia.
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9/6/16 Begin radiation therapy on right lung lesion that caused the pneumonia.
10/3/16 Last of 12 radiation treatments to right lung.
11/4/16 Huffing and puffing, low O2, high heart rate, on tiniest bit of exertion. Diagnosed as radiation pneumonitis. Treated with Prednisone.
11/11/16 PET scan shows significant improvement to radiated part of right lung BUT a bunch of new lung lesions, and the bone met is getting worse.
11/22/16 Begin Eribulin and Herceptin. H every 3 weeks. E two weeks on, one week off.
3/6/17 Scan shows progression in lungs. Bone met a little better.
3/23/17 Lung biopsy. Tumor sampled is ER-, PR+ (5%), HER2+++. Getting Herceptin and Perjeta as a maintenance treatment.
5/31/17 Port placement
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Old 04-07-2013, 09:36 PM   #11
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Re: Happy Birthday Mom (Sheila)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY Sheila! Jen you are so so very sweet to give your mom in heaven a shout out here. I think of Sheila often and with a smile. She was - and continues to be - such a strong presence for many of us. Such love the two of you shared and how kind of you to keep spreading that love forward. XOXO Kim (from CT)
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Old 04-08-2013, 05:37 AM   #12
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Thanks everyone. Since 3-29-13 (Mom's Birthday) 2 ladies (1 who was Jasmine's speech therapist who I knew well) and the other who was a science teacher at the junior high in Streator lost their battle with breast cancer. Both of these ladies were friends of Sheila's and both were diagnosed after her. Sheila Gensler was only 49 and Carolyn Branz was only 53. Please keep the families of these angels in your prayers. Thanks.
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Old 04-08-2013, 08:03 PM   #13
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Re: Happy Birthday Mom (Sheila)

Hi Jen,

Thanks for posting about your mom's birthday. I wish she was still here. She was a very supportive and loving person to all of us here at Her2. Hugs to you as you remember her daily.

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Old 04-09-2013, 03:06 AM   #14
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Re: Happy Birthday Mom (Sheila)

Hi Jen
I know today will be really hard for you. I remember the feelings when it was my own mum.the pain does ease and then you will feel the joy of knowing you had a mum in a million!
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Old 04-09-2013, 03:50 AM   #15
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Jen, your mom will never be forgotten...I need her more than ever these days, spoke to your Aunt Chris yesterday, both amazing women! Happy Birthday Sheila *
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