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Old 02-21-2010, 04:50 AM   #1
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Re: madubois(Mary Ann) Is An Angel Now

I am so shocked. I can't believe it. She was such a fighter and her posts were wonderful and so inspiring.She fought so bravely and with such amazing humor.
I also am crying.
I know so many of us felt that she was like a good friend whom we cherished so much.
I am heart broken.
I offer love and hugs to her family and friends and would like them to know how very special she was and how loved by all of us who like me live so far away but felt she was part of my special family.
I am at a loss of words, I am so very sad.
I will remember you Maryann.
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Old 02-21-2010, 07:52 AM   #2
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Re: madubois(Mary Ann) Is An Angel Now

There is nothing I can add that hasn't already been said much better by others.
She was a truly inspiring person who gave hope and courage to others.I am thankful that she died peacefully supported by people she loved. My sincere condolences to her family and friends.
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Old 02-21-2010, 12:16 PM   #3
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Re: madubois(Mary Ann) Is An Angel Now

I could'nt believe what my eye's were reading when I logged in just now. I'm so shocked, sad and in total disbelief this beautiful strong lady is gone from us
Like everyone has already said, I too was a great admirer of Maryann and I think she instilled so much of her own fighting self into all of us and continually gave us hope.
I loved reading her updates that were so detailed, and recall despite her own trials she tried her best to help me get a dvd of the film on the making of herceptin which was'nt available here.
I can't take in the fact I will no longer see those updates from her and my heart is heavy.
My deepest condolence's to Liz and Maryann's family.
Rest well Maryann xx
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Old 02-21-2010, 12:17 PM   #4
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My deepest condolences for Mary Ann's family. May she rest is peace.

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Old 02-21-2010, 01:02 PM   #5
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I, too, admired her strength and spirit and determination. Liz, you and Mary Ann and her family are in my thoughts. She was so very lucky to have a friend like you.

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Old 02-21-2010, 01:31 PM   #6
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Re: madubois(Mary Ann) Is An Angel Now

Liz, as you see you were not the only one touched by Mary ann. I will forever remember her "never give up" attitude.

Yesterday when I first read this, I was very sad. Today I saw your comments, and find myself smiling as I read "she always wanted to go to Europe". And knowing she, once again, will get her way! Thanks, Liz.
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Old 02-21-2010, 02:54 PM   #7
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Re: madubois(Mary Ann) Is An Angel Now

These last few months have been too much to bare. My heart grieves with all these wonderful men and women that have been taken too soon.

I have to make a correction on the title of this post and many of the other posts: they are not Angel's now, they were Angels while they were here on earth. Each one of these wonderful people were so much incouragment to me and to many others. They all will be greatly missed.

Liz, you and Mary Ann were truely blessed to have such a great friendship. I am deeply sorry for your loss.
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Old 02-21-2010, 03:08 PM   #8
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Re: madubois(Mary Ann) Is An Angel Now

I just came to the site after taking a few days off and
my mouth dropped open. What a fighter she was and
an inspiration for all. What sadness there has been of
late. Resilience of spirit is what we all need to make
it through these times. Hugs to all and take care.
Prayers for the family and loving thoughts.
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Old 02-21-2010, 05:25 PM   #9
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selfless beauty and grace... I will miss you MaryAnne!
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Old 02-21-2010, 11:34 PM   #10
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Such very sad news about Mary Ann. Thank you to everyone for your beautiful posts and, Christine, thanks for the wonderful photos. It was wonderful to see Mary Ann surrounded by friends and "that guy".
Best wishes for all,
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Old 02-21-2010, 11:48 PM   #11
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Like everyone else, I am shocked and so sad. I felt like I knew her. And she just seemed so invincible...
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Old 02-22-2010, 06:14 AM   #12
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Re: madubois(Mary Ann) Is An Angel Now

I was so shocked and saddened to see the post. Maduboise was a constant source of inspiration as it appeared that as long as you had a fighting spirit you could win the war.

I am so happy that she was able to get her son and daughter into college and onto the beginning of their adult life. I grieve that she did not have a chance to be here to continue to bask in the joy her children provided.

May you soar above the pain and worry.

Love, Lori
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Old 02-22-2010, 07:19 AM   #13
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Re: madubois(Mary Ann) Is An Angel Now

I am so sorry. She was so much a part of this board. So many thoughtful, wonderful women (and men gone).
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Old 02-22-2010, 08:46 AM   #14
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I am sadden to read about Mary Ann. Her family will be in my prayers.

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Old 02-22-2010, 09:18 AM   #15
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I have no words, only sadness...my prayers go out to her family...
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Old 02-22-2010, 09:39 AM   #16
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Oh no... I cannot believe this. I am so very sas to read this.

I will miss her stories. I loved to read her adventures and lived a little bit through them. She had a wonderful knack for writing her stories.

Liz, you are a precious person. What a wonderful friend you are. My heart is aching for you and MaryAnn's family.

Thank you Lord for MaryAnn and the gift she was to all of us.

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Old 02-22-2010, 02:13 PM   #17
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oh CRAP...........
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Old 02-22-2010, 03:36 PM   #18
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So much sadness here lately. Seems like every time I log on, another sister has lost the battle. I'm shaking my head.

RIP sister Mary-Ann :'(
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Old 02-25-2010, 05:59 PM   #19
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Mary Ann was another longtimer that was very inspirational to me. It's so sad to here of her passing. May she be at peace knowing her children are adults and she did a great job getting them where they are. I was just thinking of her and wondering how she was. We will all miss her deeply. Sally
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Old 02-23-2010, 09:17 AM   #20
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This is a shock. Mary Ann will be missed. Prayers to the family.
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