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Old 05-03-2008, 12:09 PM   #1
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My prayers are with Kate and her family. So sad. Looking for
miracles for all our dear ones.
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Old 05-03-2008, 12:42 PM   #2
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Cold shivers covered me as I read your words Karla. Bless you for bringing them to us all just the same. Maryls seemed to post precisely what is in my heart. Her words are the same as mine.

I cannot stop myself from still praying for a miracle. It is my nature. Kate's extraordinary courage and strength, and her ever positive Spirit, seem to embrace something divine. She emanated an energy that reflects a supreme Knowing. The beauty of her grace staggers me ever time.

If it is time for our sweet Sister Kate to return home, to what I call the Spiritual Realm, it comforts me to Know that she will be at peace, free of all pain and suffering. I Know her struggle will be ended and that her Soul will still be! I do not believe death is the end of our story. All the Lessons Kate gathered in this lifetime will go with her. And all the loving kindness that she has left behind will remain, in our hearts and minds. That wondrous energy will grow exponentially as it goes out from each of us, remembering her unique qualities worthy of seeking to emulate as we go on.

I Know there are those Kate loves dearly who are already in Heaven, waiting with open arms to greet her and revel in her. Surely her son is there, having gone on ahead of her, too soon for sure, yet having learned Life's Lessons well.

However, if it is possible, I would ask that she remain with us, with her beloved family, her darling daughter and adored grandson. So I will continue to pray. And to surely send my love to my friend Kate and to all those who hold her in the highest esteem as well.

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Old 05-03-2008, 09:51 AM   #3
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Dear Kate ...I envision you being held in angels arms.wishing you peace and no pain.
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Thank you dear Karla for keeping us posted.
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Old 05-03-2008, 11:34 AM   #4
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This is all so sad. Thank you Kavy for finding the time and energy to post this new information about our Kate.
I am sending her all of the good vibes that I can muster
up - hoping for peace and comfort for Kate and her family.
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Old 05-03-2008, 04:38 PM   #5
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I pray that she is kept as comfortable as possible. Dear Kate we all love you so.

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Old 05-03-2008, 06:31 PM   #6
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Dear Kate,
I am deeply saddened to hear of your recent struggles with bc. I do not post often but visit this sight regularly for my daily affirmations and see how everyone is doing. Thank you for helping me over countless hurdles this past year. Although we have never met; to me you were the Big Sister on this website. Your gift to share your experiences and wisdom will always be cherished by me. I wish you peace and love to you and your family.
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Old 05-03-2008, 08:05 PM   #7
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Kate

Katie darling, we have never met, but I have followed your posts and you have amazed me with your strength and willpower. My hope for you Kate is a miracle, but if that does not happen, I wish you peace and know there are Angels waiting for you. You are one wonderful Warrior Woman. Hugs and Blessings, Jeanette
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Old 05-03-2008, 09:32 PM   #8
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Praying for a miracle. Love ya all Bev
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Old 05-04-2008, 07:37 PM   #9
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I am praying for Kate and her family and wishing them all peace. I am so so sorry ... she was such an inspiration to me.

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Old 05-04-2008, 08:59 PM   #10
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Thanks Karla, for all you have done. If you can, please let Katie know how much she means to me. And she is in my prayers, and I'm still praying for her to beat this thing. Love, Bill
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