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Old 10-02-2012, 10:34 AM   #1
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Re: Prayers needed for Sheila

Thank you Jen! It will be in the mail today!
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Old 10-02-2012, 10:55 AM   #2
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Re: Prayers needed for Sheila

Sending love, healing thoughts and many prayers. Love You Sheila!
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Old 10-02-2012, 11:15 AM   #3
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Daer Jen,

Please send our love to your Mom. How is she feeling today? Does she have a Caring Bridge site or similar for updates?

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Old 10-02-2012, 12:54 PM   #4
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Talked to Mom for a couple of minutes she sounds a little better they are going to be giving her blood because her count is low. She may get to go home in a day or 2. I pray that she can strong enough again to fight. I CAN'T lose her!!
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Old 10-10-2012, 07:51 AM   #5
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Keeping Sheila in my heart and prayers. Ceesun
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Old 10-02-2012, 04:21 PM   #6
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Praying hard, as I love your Mom to bits and I 'm so worried for her! Sheila will do it and come around again I'm sure! xxx
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Old 10-02-2012, 04:47 PM   #7
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Re: Prayers needed for Sheila

We can't lose her either, Jen! Praying hard!
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Old 10-02-2012, 05:58 PM   #8
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Re: Prayers needed for Sheila

I'm with Laurel on this.

I'm praying for your mom right now.

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June 2002 extensive hi grade DCIS (pre-cancer-stage 0, clean sentinal node) Mastectomy/implant - no chemo, rads. "cured?"
9/2004 Diag: Stage IV extensive liver mets (!) ER/PR- Her2+++
10/04-3/05 Weekly Taxol/Carboplatin/Herceptin , complete response!
04/05 - 4/07 Herception every 3 wks, Continue NED
04/07 - recurrence to liver - 2 spots, starting tykerb/avastin trial
06/07 8/07 10/07 Scans show stable, continue on Tykerb/Avastin
01/08 Progression in liver
02/08 Begin (TDM1) trial
08/08 NED! It's Working! Continue on TDM1
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02/10 Continue NED. 5/10 9/10 Scans NED 10/10 Scans NED
12/10 Scans not clear....4/11 Scans suggest progression 6/11 progression confirmed in liver
07/11 - 11/11 Herceptin/Xeloda -not working:(
12/11 Begin MM302 Phase I trial - bust:(
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5/12 Scan shows reduction! 7/12 More reduction!!!!
8/12 Whoops...progression...trying for Perjeta/Herceptin (plus some more nasty chemo!)
9/12 Start Perjeta/Herceptin, chemo on hold due to infection/wound in leg, added on cycle 2 &3
11/12 Poops! progression in liver, Stop Perjeta/Taxo/Herc
11/12 Navelbine/Herce[ptin - try for a 3 cycles, no go.
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Old 10-02-2012, 10:31 PM   #9
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Re: Prayers needed for Sheila

Sheila has always been such a source of strength for me. She has given me such great advice in her responses to my threads, and has always been such a great example to everyone who reads her posts. Im so sorry she is in so much pain. I send many prayers that she will be surrounded with God's love and divine protection. Please let her know we are all thinking of her..all the time.
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Old 10-03-2012, 04:06 PM   #10
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Re: Prayers needed for Sheila

Sheila has been such an inspiration ever since I found this site. Prayers for pain relief and improvement in her counts to continue on with treatment.
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Old 10-03-2012, 07:33 PM   #11
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Re: Prayers needed for Sheila

Jen,
Your Mom is special. I have never met her, but we have the same doctor. She is in good hands. I will pray for her...and you. Daughters need their mom's. Hugs to you!
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Old 10-05-2012, 10:30 AM   #12
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Talked to Mom yesterday afternoon she said she they were sending her home. Please continue to pray that there are more options out there and she can get strong enough to continue fighting. I can't lose my Mom.
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Old 10-05-2012, 11:31 AM   #13
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Re: Prayers needed for Sheila

Thank you for the good news that she can come home, where I am sure Sheila will get more and better rest than in a bustling hospital!

Nothing like your own bed, family, dogs and hubby to see to your needs in the peace of home.
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Found suspicious lump 9/2000
Lumpectomy, then node dissection and port placement
Stage IIB, 8 pos nodes of 18, Grade 3, ER & PR -
Adriamycin 12 weekly, taxotere 4 rounds
36 rads - very little burning
3 mos after rads liver full of tumors, Stage IV Jan 2002, one spot on sternum
Weekly Taxol, Navelbine, Herceptin for 27 rounds to NED!
2003 & 2004 no active disease - 3 weekly Herceptin + Zometa
Jan 2005 two mets to brain - Gamma Knife on Jan 18
All clear until treated cerebellum spot showing activity on Jan 2006 brain MRI & brain PET
Brain surgery on Feb 9, 2006 - no cancer, 100% radiation necrosis - tumor was still dying
Continue as NED while on Herceptin & quarterly Zometa
Fall-2006 - off Zometa - watching one small brain spot (scar?)
2007 - spot/scar in brain stable - finished anticoagulation therapy for clot along my port-a-catheter - 3 angioplasties to unblock vena cava
2008 - Brain and body still NED! Port removed and scans in Dec.
Dec 2008 - stop Herceptin - Vaccine Trial at U of W begun in Oct. of 2011
STILL NED everywhere in Feb 2014 - on wing & prayer
7/14 - Started twice yearly Zometa for my bones
Jan. 2015 checkup still shows NED
2015 Neuropathy in feet - otherwise all OK - still NED.
Same news for 2016 and all of 2017.
Nov of 2017 - had small skin cancer removed from my face. Will have Zometa end of Jan. 2018.
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Old 10-05-2012, 03:24 PM   #14
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Re: Prayers needed for Sheila

I agree, there is no place ike home and nobody like family...
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June 2002 extensive hi grade DCIS (pre-cancer-stage 0, clean sentinal node) Mastectomy/implant - no chemo, rads. "cured?"
9/2004 Diag: Stage IV extensive liver mets (!) ER/PR- Her2+++
10/04-3/05 Weekly Taxol/Carboplatin/Herceptin , complete response!
04/05 - 4/07 Herception every 3 wks, Continue NED
04/07 - recurrence to liver - 2 spots, starting tykerb/avastin trial
06/07 8/07 10/07 Scans show stable, continue on Tykerb/Avastin
01/08 Progression in liver
02/08 Begin (TDM1) trial
08/08 NED! It's Working! Continue on TDM1
02/09 Continue NED
02/10 Continue NED. 5/10 9/10 Scans NED 10/10 Scans NED
12/10 Scans not clear....4/11 Scans suggest progression 6/11 progression confirmed in liver
07/11 - 11/11 Herceptin/Xeloda -not working:(
12/11 Begin MM302 Phase I trial - bust:(
03/12 3rd times the charm? AKT trial

5/12 Scan shows reduction! 7/12 More reduction!!!!
8/12 Whoops...progression...trying for Perjeta/Herceptin (plus some more nasty chemo!)
9/12 Start Perjeta/Herceptin, chemo on hold due to infection/wound in leg, added on cycle 2 &3
11/12 Poops! progression in liver, Stop Perjeta/Taxo/Herc
11/12 Navelbine/Herce[ptin - try for a 3 cycles, no go.
2/13 Gemzar/Carbo/Herceptin - no go.
3/13 TACE procedure
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Old 10-05-2012, 05:24 PM   #15
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Re: Prayers needed for Sheila

All so true.
And we are all praying and sending healing thoughts.
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Old 10-05-2012, 08:50 PM   #16
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I fear she is giving up. This KILLS me. I don't know what to do.
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Old 10-05-2012, 09:57 PM   #17
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Big hugs and prayers for all of you, Jen.

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Old 10-05-2012, 10:17 PM   #18
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Re: Prayers needed for Sheila

I am STILL keeping dear Sheila in my prayers.
She has been so strong for so long, fearlessly forging ahead with anything new that would knock back the beast.

Her body may have reached all it can take, much as I hope this is NOT true.
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Live in the moment.

MY STORY SO FAR ~~~~
Found suspicious lump 9/2000
Lumpectomy, then node dissection and port placement
Stage IIB, 8 pos nodes of 18, Grade 3, ER & PR -
Adriamycin 12 weekly, taxotere 4 rounds
36 rads - very little burning
3 mos after rads liver full of tumors, Stage IV Jan 2002, one spot on sternum
Weekly Taxol, Navelbine, Herceptin for 27 rounds to NED!
2003 & 2004 no active disease - 3 weekly Herceptin + Zometa
Jan 2005 two mets to brain - Gamma Knife on Jan 18
All clear until treated cerebellum spot showing activity on Jan 2006 brain MRI & brain PET
Brain surgery on Feb 9, 2006 - no cancer, 100% radiation necrosis - tumor was still dying
Continue as NED while on Herceptin & quarterly Zometa
Fall-2006 - off Zometa - watching one small brain spot (scar?)
2007 - spot/scar in brain stable - finished anticoagulation therapy for clot along my port-a-catheter - 3 angioplasties to unblock vena cava
2008 - Brain and body still NED! Port removed and scans in Dec.
Dec 2008 - stop Herceptin - Vaccine Trial at U of W begun in Oct. of 2011
STILL NED everywhere in Feb 2014 - on wing & prayer
7/14 - Started twice yearly Zometa for my bones
Jan. 2015 checkup still shows NED
2015 Neuropathy in feet - otherwise all OK - still NED.
Same news for 2016 and all of 2017.
Nov of 2017 - had small skin cancer removed from my face. Will have Zometa end of Jan. 2018.
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Old 10-05-2012, 11:20 PM   #19
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Re: Prayers needed for Sheila

Huge Hugs Jen,
Although you don't know me, I know how you feel and my heart goes out to you. I know it is so very difficult for you right now to see Sheila like this and how helpless you feel. Her pain, pain meds and nausea have been rough on her body, and compounded by low counts, her body is weak. She is really tired now. All of this has knocked her down, but she has not given up. She needs a break for peaceful healing rest.
As you know, she is surrounded by great hope and love. We continue to have faith and pray for her pain relief so she does not suffer, as well as comfort, nutrients, and strength. Jen, try to be strong while you continue to be there with her and for her. It's important you take care. Please make sure to eat and get some rest. Let us know how you and Sheila are doing tomorrow. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you tonight. Joanne XXX
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Old 10-06-2012, 11:25 AM   #20
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Re: Prayers needed for Sheila

Dear Jen,
Your mom is such a special person, and along with everyone else, I pray for her continued strength. She has been through so much...a true lover of life driven by her love for you, Jasmine and the rest of her family.

I think Steph, as usual, has said it perfectly. Joanne too.

You say you don't know what to do; and how could you? When what you really want to do, probably, is make it all go away, somehow fix it. I think your job is easier, and harder, at the same time - to just love your mom back. take care of yourself. Stay strong. Breathe.

Remember, you and your mom are wrapped in our healing prayers and love.

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June 2002 extensive hi grade DCIS (pre-cancer-stage 0, clean sentinal node) Mastectomy/implant - no chemo, rads. "cured?"
9/2004 Diag: Stage IV extensive liver mets (!) ER/PR- Her2+++
10/04-3/05 Weekly Taxol/Carboplatin/Herceptin , complete response!
04/05 - 4/07 Herception every 3 wks, Continue NED
04/07 - recurrence to liver - 2 spots, starting tykerb/avastin trial
06/07 8/07 10/07 Scans show stable, continue on Tykerb/Avastin
01/08 Progression in liver
02/08 Begin (TDM1) trial
08/08 NED! It's Working! Continue on TDM1
02/09 Continue NED
02/10 Continue NED. 5/10 9/10 Scans NED 10/10 Scans NED
12/10 Scans not clear....4/11 Scans suggest progression 6/11 progression confirmed in liver
07/11 - 11/11 Herceptin/Xeloda -not working:(
12/11 Begin MM302 Phase I trial - bust:(
03/12 3rd times the charm? AKT trial

5/12 Scan shows reduction! 7/12 More reduction!!!!
8/12 Whoops...progression...trying for Perjeta/Herceptin (plus some more nasty chemo!)
9/12 Start Perjeta/Herceptin, chemo on hold due to infection/wound in leg, added on cycle 2 &3
11/12 Poops! progression in liver, Stop Perjeta/Taxo/Herc
11/12 Navelbine/Herce[ptin - try for a 3 cycles, no go.
2/13 Gemzar/Carbo/Herceptin - no go.
3/13 TACE procedure
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