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Old 08-17-2008, 11:08 AM   #1
IRENE FROM TAMPA
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Thank you Joe for letting us know

I am so sorry to hear this... This has been another terrible year.

My condolences to Vanessa's family
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1996 - INFILT DUCTAL CAR.W/ LYMPH NODE INVOLVEMENT. ADRIA/CYTOXIN/5FU
1999 - RECURR. TO AUXILA AND 2 TUMORS IN LIVER
TREAT: STEM CELL REPLACEMENT/HERCEPTIN.
2002 - RECUR TO LIVER
TREAT: NAVELBINE, THEN GEMZAR, THEN XELODA.
2004 - TUMORS STILL IN LIVER
TREAT: RFA TO LIVER
STABLE UNTIL
2004 - TUMOR PROGRESSION IN LIVER.
TREAT: RESECT HALF OF LIVER.
2005 - RECURR TO LYMPH NODE OUTSIDE OF LIVER.
TREAT: TAXOL/CARPO/HERCEPTIN. FAILED ON
THIS TRIO. STARTED ON ABRAXANE.
2006 - PROGRESS WITH 2ND TUMOR GROWTH.
TREAT: AUG. BEGAN ON TYKERB/XELODA
TRIAL. CONSIDERED STABLE TO DATE.
2007 - TAKEN OFF OF TYKERB/XELODA TRIAL DUE TO
PROGRESS STARTING TYKERB/AVASTIN.
NOV 2007 - SCANS SHOW PROGRESS TUMOR GROWTH
IN ABDOM. AND TWO NEW TUMORS IN NECK AREA.
BEGAN HERCEPTIN/AVASTIN/TAXOTERE
Feb 08 - Ixempra/Xeloda
June 08 - Her/DM1 trial

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Old 08-17-2008, 11:36 AM   #2
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I am so sad and depressed. When are we going to achieve the cure for this desease? My heartfelt condolences to her family and friends.

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Old 08-17-2008, 04:07 PM   #3
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My sincerest sympathy to Vanessa's family and friends. This really rips at my heart to have lost another strong woman who helped me find my way when I felt lost.

Love and prayers to you all,
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Old 08-18-2008, 05:05 AM   #4
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Truly sad. I would have liked to have met her.

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Old 08-18-2008, 09:11 PM   #5
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So sad for the news about Vanessa.

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Old 08-17-2008, 11:21 AM   #6
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I will miss our dear Vanessa. May God's grace comfort her family during this difficult time.
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01/10/08 local recurrence -IBC
01/28/08 CT & Brain MRI - clear
02/08 - Navelbine & Herceptin
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Old 08-17-2008, 11:48 AM   #7
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Oh, how my heart breaks at losing another sister. Vanessa's family are in my thoughts and prayers. Love to all, NanaKaren
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Old 08-17-2008, 02:13 PM   #8
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So sorry

to hear about Vanessa. My prayers for her family for strength and peace. I will surely miss her posts and contributions to this site. I'm so sad!
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Old 08-17-2008, 02:28 PM   #9
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My sincerest sympathies to Vanessa's family. I know how much her children and grandchildren meant to her. She was one proud momma.

You will be sorely missed Vanessa.

Tearfully,
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Old 08-17-2008, 03:32 PM   #10
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I echo previous posts...she was such a sweet and positive person. My heart goes out to her family. She will be greatly missed. This year has touched our little family so hard.
With heavy heart, Ruth
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Old 08-17-2008, 03:42 PM   #11
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This is just too sad.
i can't believe she's gone. Her family will be in my prayers.
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Old 08-17-2008, 05:54 PM   #12
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My deepest sympathy goes out to Vanessa's family. I remember how happy she was when the new grandbabies were coming last year. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Sincerely,

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Old 08-17-2008, 07:16 PM   #13
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I am so sorry to hear of Vanessa's passing. She had such a sweet, caring disposition.

We will miss her.

all the best
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MRM Dec.18/06
3 x FEC, 3 x Taxotere
Herceptin - every 3 weeks for a year, finished May 8/08

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Old 08-17-2008, 07:50 PM   #14
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You have fought the good fight... Thank you, Vanessa, for being our friend and our inspiration. You will live in our hearts.
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Old 08-17-2008, 08:42 PM   #15
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Vanessa felt such joy with the birth of her grandchildren. I wish they had had a chance to know her warm, kind spirit.

Keeping her family in my thoughts and prayers.
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Left mast .9cm tumor 5 of 14 nodes
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33Rads
Strange infect mast site one year aft surg, hosp 1 wk
Herceptin for total of 18 months
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Arimidex 6 yrs (tried Femara, no SE improvement)
Tried Exemestane-hips got so bad could hardly walk
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5/15 Complete fracture of right femur/Titanium rods both femurs
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Old 08-18-2008, 12:16 AM   #16
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I am so saddened whenever I hear of a loss. I do not post much but I read regularly and Vanessa will be missed.
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Old 08-18-2008, 05:38 AM   #17
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So sad. It is sometimes hard for me to remember a person by their avatar, but Vanessa's smiling face and gorgeous hair popped up in my head when I read this just now. She was such a sweet person...

I am just going to put this out there...this sucks.
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6 TCH started 5/25/2007, ended after #5 due to steroid "reactions" and neuropathy in feet and hands
BUT--#6 CH w/o Taxotere
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30 rads completed 12/19/2007
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Old 08-18-2008, 06:15 AM   #18
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This makes me very sad. My condolences to the family. So unfair.
Vanessa's picture is usually the first one that is displayed everytime I visit this site - a beautiful woman. I am terribly sad.

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Diagnosed - Nov. 2, 2007 at 45
Lumpectomy - Nov. 13, 2007
Tumor 1.2 cm
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Taxotere/Carboplatin/Herceptin- 6 rounds
Neulasta
Radiation 33 treatments - will be done 6/6/08
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12/07 MUGA 61%, 4/08 MUGA 60%, 7/08 MUGA 64%
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Old 08-18-2008, 07:08 AM   #19
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Terribly sad. Too many tears. . . . . .
Much love and peace to you Vanessa. You will be missed.
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Old 08-18-2008, 08:52 AM   #20
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So sad to hear of yet another esteemed her2 member leaving us. My sincere condolences to her family.
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