Libido is lousy and ...

[vlcarr]

This is timely. Like Janis, I was just prescribed the ring by my onc. I could not take it any more. The lack of desire was bad enough but the dryness became so bad some days it was uncomfortable to walk! I do have an understanding husband and the last time was so painful we just gave up I think. Glad to read the other suggestions. I did not know the ring was what I would be getting until I picked it up. I had flashbacks of years ago attempting to insert a diaphragm and the thing slipping out of my hand and flying across the room. It was pretty hysterical. I had to use some lubricant to even get the ring in the Sahara. I've had it around 2 weeks now and I think it's getting better but have preferred another method. However, they did tell me she would prescribe the safest possible. Like you guys, I could really care less. Maybe this will help.

[dchips1]

After working for a GYN doc, he prescribed Macrobid, capsules (nitrofurantoin) 100mg 1 after any intimate encounter that involves stimulation around your urethra area. And immediately void after your time together is up. take 1 next day as well. Prevents nasty UTI/ bladder infections. This works for me very well, without then the next day I am in massive pain when urinating.
He also used to say to soften tissues around the opening use olive oil, (PLAIN no extra spices!!), massage into the tissues and slowly stretch the tissues.
I was 35 and had a hysterectomy, 37 dx with stage 4 breast cancer, and I so need so rehanging of the bladder and support of the rest of the plumbing. This is low on the priority list, but it does cause me distress not being more intimate more often with my husband.
Darita

[nsebesta]

my nurse at MDAnderson said to use olive or coconut oil! Haven't tried it yet though.