Re: Cancer is back...I just knew it.
Dear Chelee,
This SUX big time! I am so sorry. Try not to visit "what if", as it doesn't help at all.
I bet your husband is just plain scared of losing you. He may need some time to adjust. That's what men do, when they are scared: they withdraw. Or at least, most of them do.
If you need someone with you today, tomorrow, the next day, ask a friend. A stable, sensible, good good friend, if you possibly can. I did. I didn't want the extra stress of dealing with my husband's emotions.
Love
Jacqueline
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Diagnosed age 44, January 2004, 0.7 cm IDC & DCIS. Stage 1, grade 3, ER/PR pos. HER2 pos. clear margins, no nodes. SNB. 35 rads. On Zoladex and Armidex since Dec. 2004. Stopped Zoladex/Arimidex sept 2009 Still taking mistletoe shots (CAM therapy) Doing fine.
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