~Any Lawyers In The House??~

[Paty]

Marie,

Even when I cannot give you any advice on this topic because of different country laws, I would like to say that I hope you solve this problem soon and that you do not get so stressed with this, you have enough on your plate to even have to worry about something like this, specially comming from a family member, just can't understand.

Much love,

Paty

[Believe51]

Thanks for all the replies, I am off to a good start and things are bound to get ugly. I am not worried about getting money for maintainence because we put thousands of dollars into this place knowingly over our 16 years together. We do not expect this back but I also do not expect anyone else to be enjoying the new countertops or tile-enclosed shower!

I have spent most of my life here and Ed has spent all of our relationship here. I had always stayed here because my plans were to remain super close to them (grandmonsters) and this was a sacrifice I have regretted more and more as time goes on. I thought at this point in life I would be taking care of them, huhh. Anyway, Ed is going to pass away in this place we call home.

There is no reasoning with a money-grubbing, self-centered devil. Talking will only force her to push her weight, her controlling animal ways but I will have to try. I am serious though, she is not human I just know it!

Wait until August 1st when I tell her I need a written increase 30 days beforehand. She will argue because she thinks she is powerful, not realizing that law is stronger than her and it is on my side....oh lala!!>>Believe51