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Old 07-04-2009, 10:28 PM   #1
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Debbie L. - A particular discussion with you was one of my great learning experiences and a catalyst for some of my personal evolution on the site... (I think you know .) That's when I started to embrace 'the power of the written word when the spoken word is not possible' theory... and to teach myself about the power I have over my own choices and responses VS. unconscious and/or emotional reaction.

Two things that you said are so cogent and crucial to the forums here, I hope all will consider their validity:

1. "We could (should) debate SUBJECTS, not people."

2. "I may think that I'm ranting at a topic that riles me, and you may think I'm ranting at YOU!"

I am proud that you read this and liked it!
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NOV 2012 - 9 yr anniversary
JULY 2012 - 7 yr anniversary stage IV (of 50...)

Nov'03~ dX stage 2B
Dec'03~
Rt side mastectomy, Her2+, ER/PR+, 10 nodes out, one node positive
Jan'04~
Taxotere/Adria/Cytoxan x 6, NED, no Rads, Tamox. 1 year, Arimadex 3 mo., NED 14 mo.
Sept'05~
micro mets lungs/chest nodes/underarm node, Switched to Aromasin, T/C/H x 7, NED 6 months - Herceptin only
Aug'06~
micro mets chest nodes, & bone spot @ C3 neck, Added Taxol to Herceptin
Feb'07~ Genetic testing, BRCA 1&2 neg

Apr'07~
MRI - two 9mm brain mets & 5 punctates, new left chest met, & small increase of bone spot C3 neck, Stopped Aromasin
May'07~
Started Tykerb/Xeloda, no WBR for now
June'07~
MRI - stable brain mets, no new mets, 9mm spots less enhanced, CA15.3 down 45.5 to 9.3 in 10 wks, Ty/Xel working magic!
Aug'07~
MRI - brain mets shrunk half, NO NEW BRAIN METS!!, TMs stable @ 9.2
Oct'07~
PET/CT & MRI show NED
Apr'08~
scans still show NED in the head, small bone spot on right iliac crest (rear pelvic bone)
Sept'08~
MRI shows activity in brain mets, completed 5 fractions/5 consecutive days of IMRT to zap the pesky buggers
Oct'08~
dropped Xeloda, switched to tri-weekly Herceptin in combo with Tykerb, extend to tri-monthly Zometa infusion
Dec'08~
Brain MRI- 4 spots reduced to punctate size, large spot shrunk by 3mm, CT of torso clear/pelvis spot stable
June'09~
new 3-4mm left cerrebellar spot zapped with IMRT targeted rads
Sept'09~
new 6mm & 1 cm spots in pituitary/optic chiasm area. Rx= 25 days of 3D conformal fractionated targeted IMRT to the tumors.
Oct'09~
25 days of low dose 3D conformal fractionated targeted IMRT to the bone mets spot on rt. iliac crest that have been watching for 2 years. Added daily Aromasin back into treatment regimen.
Apr'10~ Brain MRI clear! But, see new small spot on adrenal gland. Change from Aromasin back to Tamoxifen.
June'10~ Tumor markers (CA15.3) dropped from 37 to 23 after one month on Tamoxifen. Continue to monitor adrenal gland spot. Remain on Tykerb/Herceptin/Tamoxifen.
Nov'10~ Radiate positive mediastinal node that was pressing on recurrent laryngeal nerve, causing paralyzed larynx and a funny voice.
Jan'11~ MRI shows possible activity or perhaps just scar tissue/necrotic increase on 3 previously treated brain spots and a pituitary spot. 5 days of IMRT on 4 spots.
Feb'11~ Enrolled in T-DM1 EAP in Denver, first treatment March 25, 2011.
Mar'11~ Finally started T-DM1 EAP in Denver at Rocky Mountain Cancer Center/Rose on Mar. 25... hallelujah.

"I would rather be anecdotally alive than statistically dead."

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Old 07-05-2009, 09:52 AM   #2
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I always love what you have to say Brenda! Once again, thank you.
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Old 07-05-2009, 02:47 PM   #3
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Brenda said: Debbie L. - A particular discussion with you was one of my great learning experiences and a catalyst for some of my personal evolution on the site... (I think you know .)

(Smiling warmly) Yes, Brenda - that "particular" discussion was an important learning experience for me, too. And as an added bonus, I found another kindred spirit connection.

It seems to me that you are a quicker study than me, though - you've evolved a lot further! (laughing, again). I still am working on being able to disagree with tact, dispassion, and compassion. Again, your manifesto is of great value to me as I learn these skills. I think it should be a sticky, at least for awhile, so we can all remember to read through it, before responding, when we read something that pushes our buttons.

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