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04-01-2008, 04:46 PM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Northern Calif.
Posts: 981
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Dear Joy,
I am hopeful that the scan will show nothing worrisome. The waiting is the pits.
As for your sweetheart, he sounds like quite the stand-up man. Take YOUR time on making a decision on marrying him in July. Pray about it, meditate, listen to your heart and think of the kids. Whatever your decision, it will be the right one for you and your girls. I must admit, I am feeling kind of excited at the prospect of our sweet Joy having a lovely wedding. hummmm....
Big Hugs,
Lexi
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04-01-2008, 05:26 PM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Connecticut
Posts: 2,077
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Joy, I didn't post before, but you have been in my thoughts and prayers. Try not to worry too much until all of the results are in. I'm so glad that you have someone special in your life, and are considering marriage. It sounds like you have met a wonderful man, but, little Sister, if you want me to fly out there and talk to this guy, and make sure he's gonna do the right thing and treat you right, you just let me know. Love, Wild Bill
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04-02-2008, 10:34 AM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: Wilmington, Del.
Posts: 1,126
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Bill is on the right track. Does that nice guy of yours know he will have to answer to the Her2 Support Group? I hope those spots on your liver are just the usual bumps and dots none of us knew our bodies develop -- until we became survivors. As for the marriage...take your time. I think your decision will become clear with time.
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MJO
IDC, Stage I, Grade 2
Oncotype DX Score 32
Her2++ E+P+, Node Neg.
Lumpectomy 11/04/05 Clear Margins
3 Dose dense AC (Couldn't tolerate 4)
4 Dose dense Taxol & Herc. (Tolerated well)
36 weeks Herceptin (Could not complete one year due to decrease in MUGA score)
2 years of Arimidex, then three years of Femara
Finished Femara May 2011
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04-02-2008, 01:41 PM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: South Florida
Posts: 477
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HI Joy,
I pray that the PET proves it to be nothing.
Sounds like a great guy. You deserve the best.
Love, Hope, Peace, Carolyn
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04-02-2008, 02:45 PM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Aug 2006
Posts: 3,380
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Joy,
I hope your results are the best possible. You have been through so much with such class and an indominatable spirit. You have had the courage to reach out and find the love you have been seeking. I agree with everyone else here, you will know in your heart what the right answer is. Life is about change, and, while it is understandable that you have your children (and pets!) to consider, this is also your one and only life, and you need to live it for you. How you have handled both bc and being a parent are great examples for your kids. If you are doing the right thing for you, you will be doing the right thing for them, too.
Best of luck to you with everything,
Hopeful
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