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Old 05-12-2007, 10:16 AM   #1
Andrea Barnett Budin
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Wink Dede -- I See You Live In Tennesee

Hi Dede, I hope you've read my stats. July '95 Stage IV + 2 lymph nodes, mastec, tram flap reconstr + 4 Adria ?12 CMF (50 yrs old). (Aug. '94 Mammog was clean.) Borderline E so they put me on Tamoxifen. Aug. '98 multiple mets in liver. They told me to throw my Tamoxifen down the toilet! Her2+ 80%, as nomenclated back in the day. FDA fast-tracked Herceptin because of the great results. Women given 3 mnths to live couldn't get it. There was a lottery system. My incredible doc MJ (Dr. Mohammed Jahanzeb) was in Boca at the time. Got 5 opinions (mostly in NY where I then lived 6 mnths a yr). MJ suggested Taxotere -- the most aggressive tool in their arsenal at the time for a highly aggressive invasive lobular carcinoma (that was ME). I went on Taxotere in Sept '98 through May '99. Apr. 2 oncs suggested I bring my x-rays for their radiologist to read. First one said he wasn't sure what he was looking at were tumors. They appeared filled w/fluid, cyst-like. The dead remains of tumors. I continued on Taxotere. Another onc suggested I bring my x-rays for his radiologist to read. He knew nothing of any other radiologists' reports. He said the same thing -- cyst-like, necratic tissue, dead remains of tumors. At the end of May I just couldn't take any more. I had suffered every conceivable side effect bitterly and was crawling. MJ said no reason to believe the Herceptin can't keep me stable. Was on wkly till '02 then switched to triple dose every 3 wks. Have regular chest/abd/pel CTs. Went from ev 8 wks to ev 3 mnths. I begged for ev 4 mnths as the drink gave me diarrhea for 3 days. Last yr I graduated to ev 6 mnths. Am due in June. Have comprehensive bld tests ev 3 mnths w/tumor markers.

Dr. MJ is an incredible doc/human being. You call. He answers -- within the hr or def the same day. He is aggressive in treatment yet not over the top. He is kind, caring, giving. He listens. He lets you take your time. He waits to see if you have any more questions. He answers everything you ask w/considered thought and explains what he bases his opinion on. He cites studies and facts and figures. He is unique and I was blessed to have in my life when I needed him most. If -- God forbid a hundred million times -- I were to need him, I would be on the first plane to Tenn. He heads the oncol department at the Univ of Tenn. I believe he helped save my life.

He travels extensively around the country and the world, attending and/or giving lectures on breast cancer and lung cancer -- his specialties. He is brilliant and yet a sweetheart. A gentleman who I cannot say enough good things about.

I wanted you to hear all this. If there is any way in the world you can get to where he is -- my best advice would be to run there. If any one has answers for you -- MJ will. He will not give up on you. I WAS HIS FIRST PATIENT IN '95. I am NED (no evidence of disease), joyful, serene, in harmony and good health. I wish you the same! I wish that for all these exceptional ladies on this site. I admire their courage and determination, their proactive approach and their strength. Never give in. Never give up. I'm standing w/you. Please let me hear back from you. Sending loving, healing energy... ANDI
From Taxotere had pleural effusion (which went away after about 6 mnhs). Had small pericardial effusion that remains and they now believe will never go away and is not cancerous. I now get annual ECHOs to check my EF. Was ev 6 mnths. I go for transvaginal pelvic sonos to check my ovaries, etc. I go for bone density tests ev 2 yrs.
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Old 05-12-2007, 10:36 AM   #2
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Andrea - you are so wonderful - a true miracle and full of life - I LOVE IT!! Dede, hang in there and do what you need to do. I was on Herceptin since 2003 with my second go around of chemo and then just herceptin till 3 weeks ago and am starting tykerb/xeloda on Wed. as there are spots on my lung - they say there are side effects but I always go into everything like that saying, they have to tell you all the side effects but that does not mean you will get them. I had none from Herceptin and if I did I dealt with them. I am stage 4 as well but I feel blessed and lucky that I am still here. I made my 54th birthday in Jan. and I'll make it for another 20 years. I met a wonderful man 5 months ago after my husband left me so I am truly blessed - there is a reason I'm still here - I know it and it makes me jump for joy. Dede, I am with Andrea and many other wonderful women on this - don't ever give up - believe!! I am sending you and all the women love, happiness, positive energy, everything in life that is great.
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Old 05-14-2007, 11:51 AM   #3
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Wink Bailey -- You Are One Beautiful Spirit!

I adore your attitude! Your husband left? I can only assume GOOD RIDDENS is in order. In the midst of all this?! HIS loss. You are remarkable. Your attitude is why I say you are one beautiful Spirit! Good for you! You sound so wonderfully together. You obviously know who you are and know how special you are, and so does this nice new guy! I'm truly impressed.

Every morning brings a new challenge w/another odd occurence w/our bodies, but we adapt and deal! We are each heroes. Or as Maya Angelou says -- SHEROES! A whole new way of looking at the idea of nobility, don't you think?! Be good to yourself. Stay strong. You are so full of grace, I am wowwed.

I think I LOVE YOU... ANDI
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Old 05-14-2007, 12:24 PM   #4
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Thanks Andi - you are so kind. Yes, as I say the dumbass left although it's been 2 years now but he left after I had just been off chemo for the 2nd time - he left 6 months after my last chemo - had been screwing around since I first started chemo in 2002 but I did not know at the time - of course who would when you're so sick from that Adry. chemo. It is definately his loss. It took me a couple of years but through counselling I made it - feel good about myself again and adore my new man while still staying true to myself. My ex is so unhappy though and although I wish him nothing bad in his life it very sad for him - I feel sorry for him and happy happy for me.
My next step in life starts Wed. or Thurs. when I start tykerb/xeloda but I just know it will all be okay - I don't accept any less. Between working out each day, meditation and some yoga I will be around for a long time.
I wish you well also - stay in touch.
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