i was just being kind of facetious because it seems that we often pick a person who has the same disease as us and then "hitch ourselves to their sails", and if something bad happens to them, it crushes us because then we think it will happen to us. each case is very very very different, in ways that even doctors can't yet explain. so, it's best not to borrow the trouble of others, dont you think? anyway, i hope you are doing really well...best, lauren
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