I think we need to get more FEMALE scientists involved in this, lets face it some men find that having a tight one is a turn on for them but excruitiating for the female. We tried to get answers about this once before but we came up against a brick wall in the end and the forum thread died a natural death. I for one love my partner to death and I find it wonderful that I still have him and he feels the same way about me and hasn't turned to other women, not so for some of our other lovely, lonely readers of our forum. I tried a lubricant from the health shop for a while but it is always there for the after thought and not the thought of the moment, a bit like having a condom on hand, especially since we all probaly had a normal response before BC to our partners, they get the erection and we get tense because we no it is going to be somewhat painful hence the term "a fine line between pleasure and pain", it seems that when we get the cure for BC we may get the answer to this problem as well, of little consulation to us now. It isn't a lubricant we need it is a complete sytem treatment to our glands that benefit from eostrogen. I stopped my eostrogen blocker to allow my cancer cells to grow so they can be treated with chem, doesn't sound like a very bright move, the cells grew, but this has not allowed the eostrogen that has been unblocked to make any difference to my system, I stopped in September last year and it is as if my body needs to be retrained to produce the natural release of eostrogen to the body, if that makes sence.
Love & Hugs Lyn
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