Help, My husband is driving me crazy

[Vanessa]

Thanks for all of your comments and the humor, also. I am feeling calmer right now. I haven't heard from him in a week, so I think he may have calmed down, also. I am not going to let any comments that he makes upset me. Thanks again for all the support, I really needed it.

[Vanessa]

I forgot to answer the question about why we are not already divorced. He filed for divorce right before I found out I had breast cancer and gave me the papers with a waiver. After I found out I had breast cancer, I refused to sign the waiver, because I was afraid of going through this along, which I am doing now anyway. Also, I am afraid of how I am going to take care of myself financially if I become unable to work. Right now I only work part-time and that is difficult for me while I am doing chemo.