Help, My husband is driving me crazy

[Catherine]

Vanessa,

What a toxic moron your "paper" husband is. Hit the ignore button when ever he calls, writes, texts or breaths. You are not nuts, you are being harrassed. I am not sure why you are not divorced. There must be a reason, like it is too much work to get rid of this bad guy.

Anyway, you are a doll and keep reminding yourself of that. I bet all of your "local" friends would agree with the sentiments from the Her2 Club. Too bad we can not call Tony Saprano. First Tony could take you to dinner, then he could call one of his boys and then......poof.....

Just wanted to add a little humor to our venting, Catherine

[Vanessa]

Thanks for all of your comments and the humor, also. I am feeling calmer right now. I haven't heard from him in a week, so I think he may have calmed down, also. I am not going to let any comments that he makes upset me. Thanks again for all the support, I really needed it.

[Vanessa]

I forgot to answer the question about why we are not already divorced. He filed for divorce right before I found out I had breast cancer and gave me the papers with a waiver. After I found out I had breast cancer, I refused to sign the waiver, because I was afraid of going through this along, which I am doing now anyway. Also, I am afraid of how I am going to take care of myself financially if I become unable to work. Right now I only work part-time and that is difficult for me while I am doing chemo.