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Old 06-02-2007, 08:24 PM   #1
Barbara H.
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Unhappy So sad!!!!

My sincere condolences to Sandy's husband and her family. I am still totally shocked by this news, although I knew she wasn't doing well these past few weeks. She was such a fighter, and her posts gave so much hope to everyone on this site. She seemed to care about everyone and was so upbeat. I really expected her to keep going. She seemed to be doing well this past winter which makes it hard for me to believe.

She will be missed by so many in our support group, but she will always be in our thoughts and her memory will still continue to give us support and hope. How can we donate to the HER2 support group in her name?

Thinking of you, Sandy!!!!

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Old 06-02-2007, 08:46 PM   #2
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another angel has earned her wings

Steph,
I am absolutely heart sick to hear the news of Sandy's passing. She was an unusual gem with a heart the size of Texas. Her great sense of humor kept us smilin' through the day and now her loss is almost unbelievable! Steph, thank you for staying in touch with Sandy and her family.
Love and Hugs, Kim From CT
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Old 06-02-2007, 09:45 PM   #3
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How to donate, etc.

Can't seem to reply - I get an error message. I'll try again.

You may make a donation to this site in Sandy's name in the ABOUT US section of this site. Go to the bottom of the right hand column and there is a link. They take a check or Paypal.

JoJo -
The "ghosts" quip was from back when Sandy and I first met in 2004 at the San Antonio symposium. We were both approaching our 5 years since DX and we said we must be ghosts since we had passed our "due dates" according to the stats for our particular situations. That was the theme that year - stage IV can be survived and have a good life quality. Ask Esther - she was also one of us showing the world that it can be done!

It was a difficult day as I knew the post on losing Sandy would shock some and upset everyone at the least. I also notified Joe and Chris at ASCO in Chicago.
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Found suspicious lump 9/2000
Lumpectomy, then node dissection and port placement
Stage IIB, 8 pos nodes of 18, Grade 3, ER & PR -
Adriamycin 12 weekly, taxotere 4 rounds
36 rads - very little burning
3 mos after rads liver full of tumors, Stage IV Jan 2002, one spot on sternum
Weekly Taxol, Navelbine, Herceptin for 27 rounds to NED!
2003 & 2004 no active disease - 3 weekly Herceptin + Zometa
Jan 2005 two mets to brain - Gamma Knife on Jan 18
All clear until treated cerebellum spot showing activity on Jan 2006 brain MRI & brain PET
Brain surgery on Feb 9, 2006 - no cancer, 100% radiation necrosis - tumor was still dying
Continue as NED while on Herceptin & quarterly Zometa
Fall-2006 - off Zometa - watching one small brain spot (scar?)
2007 - spot/scar in brain stable - finished anticoagulation therapy for clot along my port-a-catheter - 3 angioplasties to unblock vena cava
2008 - Brain and body still NED! Port removed and scans in Dec.
Dec 2008 - stop Herceptin - Vaccine Trial at U of W begun in Oct. of 2011
STILL NED everywhere in Feb 2014 - on wing & prayer
7/14 - Started twice yearly Zometa for my bones
Jan. 2015 checkup still shows NED
2015 Neuropathy in feet - otherwise all OK - still NED.
Same news for 2016 and all of 2017.
Nov of 2017 - had small skin cancer removed from my face. Will have Zometa end of Jan. 2018.
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Old 06-02-2007, 09:54 PM   #4
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I am so very sorry. There are no words for times when our grief is beyond expression. To Sandy's family, our sincere condolances to all of you.

Sandy had a beautiful soul. Her words were always spoken with kindness and compassion. May God's strength be with you during this difficult time. You are in our prayers.
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"at least" 4.5 cm IDC 1+node ER+61% /PR-
Assiciated Intraductual component with Comedo Necrosis
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