I'm scared

[Dianaq]

Susan, I too am scared. I am Her2 positive node negative, grade 2. I had 2 tumors 1 @1.5c DCIS and 1 @1.7c invasive. Both tumors removed with clear margins. I have heard Herceptin and Radiation work well but have not seen enough studies to show if Chem makes a difference with node negative. I am still trying to decide my treatments. I will be right here with you.

[nitewind]

Diane, This is what I keep thinking about, maybe just Herceptin. It's getting closer and closer to chemo time and I'm still so uncertain. I don't want to go against my gut feeling but I'm so scared that what if I don't do it? If I don't do it now will I have the option if I need it later? I'm confused, please keep me posted on your situation.

Hugs
Susan

[rinaina]

Susan, I was diagnosed with stage I, node negative, er/pr- her2+ in April of this year and had a lumpectomy. I just completed chemo and while it wasn't a picnic, I have no regrets doing it because I trusted my oncologist who said I needed it and I did so much research and decided that it was the best way to fight this beast. I just had my first herceptin treatment and will be starting radiation as well in a few weeks. Having chemo, herceptin and radiation makes me feel like I am doing somtheing pro-active to stop this cance from spreading. I know there are no gaurantees but if you don't do any treatment, I feel you are at greater risk for a reoccurence or a metastisis. I am so sorry about your husband's inability to cope with this and he should be ashamed of himself. Don't feel you will be a burden to your sister and her family. I am sure she is happy to be there for you as you would for her. Keep in touch and if I can be of any help just email me or write again here. Best of luck to you.,