Brian mets and needed direction

I would like some good advice on where to go. I went to dr. black at cedar sinai, I consullted with the neurosugery clinic at UCSF. I had wbr per my radiation oncologist here. Dr. Black supported what the r.o. said (wbr) because I had multiple brain mets. But now, they are saying wait 6 more months! I would like a much more proactive program---not a wait and see. I have symptoms and tho the mets are receding---I feel like they have me in a holding pattern
I was under the impression that I would get stereotactic tx for mets that are left. I am so unsatsfied with this. So far I have sent in scans, pictures, letters, and I feel like a number still. I travelled all the way to l,a. right after surgery. Please help me if you can. Susan