your perpectives on prognosis (or lack of)

I understand that we had just discussed about the recurrence rate of her2 cancers. Now, I'm interested in hearing about your OWN experiences/opinions at original diagnosis (and/or recurrences):

1) Were you able to get your prognosis from your onc? If not, what was their reply?

2) Why did you decide NOT to ask for it?

3) How did you react upon hearing your prognosis?

4) Do you think we have the right to know our prognosis, even if our onc withholds info?

All ears (or rather eyes) here. :-) Many thanks! Hugs