met to bone

I am new to this board and it has been helpful already. I was orig. dx in july 2002. I had 2 tumors right next to each other, both sm but still any size is too big for cancer in my opinion. I chose a masectomy. 7 of 12 nodes pos. ER- her2 3+++ and was just dx with met to bone. I will be getting a port a cath in about 10 da. Does anyone have any helpful suggestions for me in this new adventure? I had my firt treatment on 5/26 of Herceptine/Navelbine, and Aredia. So far I am doing well. No up chucks like before. I am wondering if I will lose my hair again but it actually is a minor concern. Living is the biggie.