Liver mets. Am I wrong to want them zapped?

[michka]

Hi, it's me again with my liver mets! As I explained in a post, although I had surgery early December for what I thought was one met, a mid January MRI showed I had 2 liver mets that were already visible on the original MRI I had in November prior to the operation. My onc agrees I should try to have them taken out since I have (at this moment...) no other met. I started Herceptin and Tykerb end of December. Of course I do not want to go back to the surgeon who did such a bad job. I discovered that even the one tumor he took out did not have clear margins.
My onc sent me to see a very good team of digestive surgeons. I was waiting for their answer by the phone for days. They refuse to operate! They say it's not worth it. I asked if it was not doable. They said it was but not "in the standards"!!! Not for breast cancer!
What do you think? Am I wrong to want to zap these 2 tumors which are 20mm? In my mind I also need to add chemo but I want to start after the zap. (I would like Navelbine). I am fighting to find a surgeon to zap them. Any suggestion of a place in the States is welcome. I already contacted Sloan in NY. I am waiting for their opinion. I have an appointment next week in another place in Paris thanks to Joan. It seems logical to me: if you can zap a tumor, zap it. Like in the brain or in the lungs. But maybe I am stupid and the liver is not the same although it grows back!
At first, I was very depressed and had complications from the first operation (what a surgeon!) . Now, I want to fight. You gave me hope and strength.
Michka