Need help! Calling brains in.

[michka]

Hello Friends. As you know I had the met in my liver taken out by laparoscopy. Well I just got the pathology results:
It is now HER2+++ but ER 20% and PR 0%! I was HER2+++ and ER 90% and PR 20%.The grade is 3 SBR!
My onc said he wanted me on herceptin and tykerb right away. Before I could even think he got me a doctor who put a port in again this afternoon. It was painful. Then his idea is to add chemo and he came up with this strange idea of CMF. A very old chemo isn't it that never worked for HER2s? Am I wrong? Or he also spoke about taxotere. But he said we had time to think of that since I would start chemo in January.
I am starting Herceptin and Tykerb next week.

What do you think of all this?
What a change in the pathology! Have your mets analyzed!
I agree to start H and T because now that I am weakly ER+ maybe it will work better than during the neoadjuvant period.
But why start a toxic chemo since we cannot even measure how it works since right now, I have no other visible tumor. Shouldn t I keep this as an extra weapon and not use it right away or is it better to try to wipe out any new met even invisible since the characterstics of the liver met are so aggressive?

I am down and depressed. I have been crying for 2 weeks now. I don't have hormonotherapy to fight with anymore.
I also had a brain MRI that was clear.

Michka