The what ifs
This is to all of you wonderful caregivers out there. Boy, do you have a tough job.
Anyhow, I have a quick question for you. I have a need to discuss with hubby the what ifs. It makes me feel that we have a plan for the children should something happen (I could be hit by a bus, right?). Even down to how the insurance money could be spent. Gosh, this is awful but true. The problem is, while I seem to feel better after these talks, Hubby is hurt and sad. Should I just knock it off?
Thanks for your wisdom.
Tonya
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DX 02/01/07
2.5 cm, Er/Pr-, Her2+++
18/20 Nodes
03/07 CT & Bone scan - Clear
AC x 4, Taxol x 4, Added Herceptin
Radiation until 09/07
Herceptin every 3 weeks until 06/08
01/10/08 local recurrence -IBC
01/28/08 CT & Brain MRI - clear
02/08 - Navelbine & Herceptin
05/08 -MRM
05/08 - Gemzar & Herceptin - didn't work
09/08 - Hyperthermia rads
03/09 - Tykerb/Xeloda
05/10 - Tram flap to fix wound
Last edited by Faith in Him; 01-10-2009 at 03:58 PM..
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