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hi
All of this is so helpful. You all added so much insight into this for Sue and I, we feel very lucky to have you all.
There are so many good points...
Audrey, there is no such thing as being too bold, we are asking for help, and you certainly gave it. SO I'll be bold (or stupid and big-mouthed...whichever lol)
Sue is beautiful, and I never considered her right breast to be the main attraction. I can only try to understand the emotions involved for a woman, and I don't pretend to have any insight at all into it. For me, and probably for many, many men... what matters is the person, the soul-mate.... not a breast (or breasts). Also for me, I was really surprised to hear her ask me if I would still be attracted to her after her mastectomy. I honestly never thought of it in that way until she asked. I always thought of my partner, my baby, and how helpless I felt to not be able to wave a magic wand and have all of this go away... Wouldn't life be easy then?
Your advice is not too bold, and it is not out of line, and is very helpful. I hope I don't sound overly emotional in my response. I write it because it is the truth. I am sorry you weren't told, that shouldn't prevent you from knowing it to be true.
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