What to tell kids?

[michele u]

I have been alittle down this week. I think it is because i have this big decision on the one more of Herceptin decision. Anyway, my 12 year old son has been asking some hard questions. The other night he was crying because he was thinking that he could not say Good Night to me if i died. It broke my heart. I was strong and told him "of course" i will be able to hear you! I just can't stand the thought of them without me. How do you all with small kids get through this?