I couldn't have said it any better....we all have our down days but in the end by allowing your every waking moment be spent on cancer and "what-if's" and torturing yourself you are really giving up your control on how you will let this affect your life. Absolutely no one has that magical answer of how long...that includes all the others out there without cancer or some other chronic disease. The only difference between them and us is that we have been given a second chance to really enjoy our life here and now. I hope that makes sense to you. Don't let this win by taking away your joy of living. Step away from this for a little while and focus on something that makes you happy.
Kitty
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