Dear Lori
When I was a child I had what was called then, a mastoid which was an ear infection that went to the bone. I am 50 years old and this happened when I was 7. Basically, 43 yrs ago a new antibiotic came out that could potentially "cure" this infection because prior to that, the bone had to be surgically removed. I was in the hospital one week but that antibiotic (I think it was a Tetracycline type if not tetracycline itself) worked. I didn't have to have surgery. However, Xrays showed my bone was disfigured from the incident. I tell my family and friends only so they know so if anything happens to me and a CT of the head is done, they know that disfigurement is just part of who I am forever.
Perhaps it is the same for you in this case. Fight, fight, fight to find out what the raspberry mass is. Is it an old or current infection? Did a bug crawl in your ear (don't laugh, this can happen
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That bone can become infected. It is rarer today with new fangled antibiotics but it does and can - especially for those of us who went through chemo and have depressed immune systems.
We always have to be cautious with these things but it can be something else too.