How much does grade enter into treatment plan?

[mom22girlz]

I am stage 1, but high grade 3. Also Her +++ Am scared to get chemo, but even more scared not to......Will see the oncologist today to see what he says, but I don't know what to say to be more proactive. Do you say, I'm afraid not to get chemo? I've read a lot about the new test to see if chemo will be effective, but wonder how long it takes to get the results. I am tired of waiting. I called to get a cancellation and so I am going in one day earlier than expected. not much, but something. Now it is a blizzard outside and all roads in our county are closed!! my appt is later in the day today, but the doctor is coming from 60 miles away. So I am even more on edge. I have a call into his office to see if the appts. will stand. nervous!! susan