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Lien · 03-27-2013, 02:40 PM

Hi Kirismum,

When I was diagnosed the hardest thing for me was to tell my Dad. I could handle the diagnosis and the treatments, but not the fear in his eyes. It took me a month before I could bring it up. Perhaps your daughter feels the same. Perhaps it is too much for her to handle your feelings right now.

Over the past 9 years I've read about these scares on both online support groups I belong to, and several times the spots in the lung turned out to be scar tissue from previous infections. And liver spots can be benign as well. So hard as this is, it may still be allright.

I'm keeping everything crossable crossed for you and your daughter.

Hugs

Jacqueline

03-27-2013, 02:40 PM	#5
Lien Senior Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Haarlem, the Netherlands Posts: 835	Re: Haven't been on this board for nearly 3 years Hi Kirismum, When I was diagnosed the hardest thing for me was to tell my Dad. I could handle the diagnosis and the treatments, but not the fear in his eyes. It took me a month before I could bring it up. Perhaps your daughter feels the same. Perhaps it is too much for her to handle your feelings right now. Over the past 9 years I've read about these scares on both online support groups I belong to, and several times the spots in the lung turned out to be scar tissue from previous infections. And liver spots can be benign as well. So hard as this is, it may still be allright. I'm keeping everything crossable crossed for you and your daughter. Hugs Jacqueline __________________ Diagnosed age 44, January 2004, 0.7 cm IDC & DCIS. Stage 1, grade 3, ER/PR pos. HER2 pos. clear margins, no nodes. SNB. 35 rads. On Zoladex and Armidex since Dec. 2004. Stopped Zoladex/Arimidex sept 2009 Still taking mistletoe shots (CAM therapy) Doing fine.