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Old 10-22-2011, 08:28 AM   #13
NEDenise
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Talking Re: Finding Little Comfort in the Statistics of Survival

Ladies...
I couldn't agree more with those of you who recommend that we...
focus on the positive!
toss those old statistics away!
know in your heart that you WILL survive!
enjoy every single day, and treasure the beauty around you!

You are absolutely right!! IMHO

My brother loves the quote, "78% of statistics are 90% made up"!
When people, or articles start quoting statistics, I'm trying to train my brain to glaze over, and take me to my happy place.
We are all sooooo different! I really can't believe that any one study has enough women exactly like me, in it...to make the statistics applicable to my prognosis.

My chances of survival are 100%...no matter what someone quotes in an article! (and like Laurel pointed out...I have heaven waiting for me on the other side...so it's a win/win!)

Love and hugs to all of you!
Denise
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4/12/11-A/C x 4, then T/H x 4, H only,Q3 weeks
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11/11 radiation x28
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6/20/13 quarterly CT - chest, abdomen, pelvis - All Clear!
7/5/13 finally off steroids!!
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7/13/13 Symptoms return - back on steroids
7/26/13 Back on Avastin - try again!
8/26/13 Not ready to return to classroom yet :( But I CAN walk without holding onto things! :)
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