[belle]

Hi Ginny,

I second all the great replies you have received already. It brings nothing to dwell on what the onc said. Doctors tend to have different opinions about the same case. Maybe your onc turned out to be the pessimistic, helpless, or whatever type of person he is. On my mom's 4 year journey with bc (now 1+ year stage IV) we have been through several different doctors with different attitudes, opinions and competence. With no lymph node involvement the chances for no recurrence are usually good.

About getting back to normal life - it takes time... especially after what your doctor said. You received all the necessary treatment and have done your best to stay healthy. It gives your nothing to guess the future and draw pictures. It doesn't harm to stay vigilant and informed but also enjoy your life.

Hugs and best wishes,
belle