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Barbara H. · 10-09-2010, 02:40 PM

I would take the new job. I was originally diagnosed in 1998, and then diagnosed with mets pretty much through out, including the brain. I still work full time as a 5th grade teacher, and continue to take courses. Even with stage 4 breast cancer, I refuse to give up working. I have taken off less time than others who are healthy, and have always had great support. I can't believe that you are receiving no support. Everyone eventually has ups and downs in life, and I wouldn't want to be living the life of your current colleagues. I sounds like a very unhealthy atmosphere. If you feel the new job is right for you, I would accept it. We also have teachers who have been hired at our school after a cancer diagnosis. They are productive and supported both by their colleagues and the parents.

You have to decide if the job you want to accept is right for you. I did take off time to be with my three children when they were young, but my middle daughter has autism. Nevertheless, i have noticed that the students in my classes whose parents work are very well adjusted and do well in school.

Best of luck with your decision.

Barbara H.

10-09-2010, 02:40 PM	#16
Barbara H. Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Newton, MA Posts: 951	Re: Career crossroad I would take the new job. I was originally diagnosed in 1998, and then diagnosed with mets pretty much through out, including the brain. I still work full time as a 5th grade teacher, and continue to take courses. Even with stage 4 breast cancer, I refuse to give up working. I have taken off less time than others who are healthy, and have always had great support. I can't believe that you are receiving no support. Everyone eventually has ups and downs in life, and I wouldn't want to be living the life of your current colleagues. I sounds like a very unhealthy atmosphere. If you feel the new job is right for you, I would accept it. We also have teachers who have been hired at our school after a cancer diagnosis. They are productive and supported both by their colleagues and the parents. You have to decide if the job you want to accept is right for you. I did take off time to be with my three children when they were young, but my middle daughter has autism. Nevertheless, i have noticed that the students in my classes whose parents work are very well adjusted and do well in school. Best of luck with your decision. Barbara H.