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Oh susan...I feel for you. I was where you are just last year at the age of 35 and incidently my children were 7 and 3 at the time. It is very difficult but you will get through it. It has taken me a year to come to terms with it and now I rarely cry over it but there was a time all I did was cry. The hardest part was the children and the thoughts I had concerning them. No need to go there I know that you can relate, but it did get better. This is the hardest stage, what you are in right now. Once you know for sure what you are dealing with and have a plan it will get better. Have they told you whether you are estrogen + or - yet? Or how big your tumor is? Are you having genetic testing? Once you know these things, and lymph status, a plan will be formed and you can start to move on. Until then come to the boards and get all the info you can. Some (most) is scarey but the knowledge is invaluable. There are other websites as well like young survival coalition where lost of women our age post and breast cancer. org, not to mention FORCE. Good luck and keep us posted.
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