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Rhonda that sounds similiar to what I went through with my neighbor. She was upset when I got to her house because I had talked to my son before going down and knew what I was going for. She said, "you should talk to me and not your son". I knew then I was in for a challenge. I was upset that she took it upon herself to handle this situation in such a negative way and then to get her husband in on it. It made him feel like he was dirt. She told me I needed to get him out of daycare but she didn't want me to talk to the teacher just pull him out. She told him my son would never amount to anything! Well, he has a college degree and has a well paying job, building a beautiful home, is not married yet but has had several long term relationships but has not found the right woman yet and that may never happen and that is his choice. I am sad to say that her son is mixed up and he talks to my son about it and blames it on his mother he said he could never do anything right!! So very sad she has another son who is can do no wrong. Go figure I don't understand it. Best wishes to you Rhonda sounds like you are doing a great job to me and some times you have to go with your heart and do what you feel is right and you did. hugs, Sandy
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